Posted by SandraDee on October 26, 2002, at 11:01:33
In reply to Women/Womin and My Problems..boohooo!! everyone!, posted by jay on October 26, 2002, at 6:50:16
I'd date ya hahahaha... but ah, I'm married :)
I wanted to say that maybe she wanted you to ask her out 5 months ago, and now feels like you invited her as a 'pity date' or something. She might resent the fact that you didn't ask her out sooner. Just keep it low-key on your "friend-date". Be a friend then... and maybe after "date" three... you'll be holding hands or something :) Give her time to see the outside of work, and playful Jay. Find out what she really likes, (maybe a new CD) and buy it for her. Bring a toy for her child. I'm just thinking of things that would make me think twice about a guy if I was a single mom.
Oh well - had to check out the picture to find out why you are having troubles getting a date, now that I've seen your picture and hear what you've posted - I am just as confused why you are having problems :) That sounds really shallow - but trust me there is a compliment in there somewhere.
Toodles,
Me
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