Posted by Dinah on March 1, 2002, at 8:08:10
In reply to Re: Anger: a possible scenario, posted by Anna Laura on March 1, 2002, at 2:34:55
I fervently ask that everyone do me a great favor and let this thread gracefully die. As is not infrequently the case my intentions were good but my judgement was flawed.
I started the thread because I had one of those moments where I was ready for insight, where I was prepared for a paradigm shift in my view of the world.
I am finally ready to accept that the problem is my problem with anger; that everyone gets angry and that I am totally unable to cope with even the normal everyday anger that everyone expresses.
I am certain that the idea has been suggested to me before. I seem to remember an anger seminar I attended. The counselor leading the workshop asked me to stay after the class and worriedly inquired as to whether I was seeking professional help. But you know how it is. No one accepts an insight until they are good and ready.
And it occurs to me that my question was in very bad taste. I don't suppose I would like it if my husband got on the internet, even anonymously, and informed the world that I was fat and slovenly, complete with stories of how much food I could put away in one sitting and my pitiful notions of what cleaning the bathroom entails.
So let's let this thread die, and hopefully it will be archived soon, to wither away in obscurity while I explore my new insight.
Thanks,
DinahPS. Anna Laura - you are completely right.
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