Posted by Zeba on January 28, 2009, at 22:32:06
In reply to Husband's SHAMEFUL Interests - Please Help!, posted by Emmie on December 6, 2008, at 13:36:27
I don't post on babble anymore but sometimes lurk, like maybe once per month. This was just too serious to ignore. Sorry if I sound harsh.
I will start by saying that I do psychological evaluations for the courts. I also have worked wiht sex offenders, and so I get a lot of evaluations of persons who have been charged with sex offenses. I don't want to scare you, but if your husband is looking at child pornography sooner or later he will be arrested. The FBI and local, county, and state police departments all monitor these sites. It is only a matter of time before he is sucked into the web. It is a felony offense to look at child pornography on the Internet. Why you ask? Because these are real children who are being abused by someone, and people who look at these sites promote the continued practice of child abuse.
I realize you and others may think me harsh, but he needs to get help and soon before he is arrested. Even erasing a hard drive does not do the trick. They have ways of finding stuff that was on the hard drive. I have seen way too many guys who were arrested for Possession of Child Pornography. If you have a therapist, it would be best to go that route first before talking to your husband.
Zeba
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