Posted by blahblahblah on May 26, 2009, at 18:58:36
hey,
So my maternal transference is getting really bad, that i feel my heart is breaking every session. I push her just to get some love from her, which i know rationally isn't what i should be doing. but unfortunately rationality doesn't always come into play in therapy. Last night i asked her how will i know when i can stop therapy. she said that only i will know that. so i responded with "well if you don't care, why should I?". i just want and yearn from something from her. some weeks she seems really warm, others not so much. i have to force myself not to call or message her after sessions. does anyone have any advice on how this will calm down, and how the hell it is helping. because right now i am sick of my heart breaking.
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