Posted by B2chica on May 18, 2009, at 8:07:16
In reply to Has your T ever hurt you like this?, posted by Birdsong on May 16, 2009, at 13:56:15
wow, this really got me steaming.
FIRST of all you ARE WORTH HELPING.
no offense but i think your T was unethical and quite frankly...an A$$.
what a HORRIBLE thing to say to a patient, EVEN if it was jokingly said, which i dont think it was in your case.so walk out YES and NEVER look back.
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Secondly, unfortunately there are WAY too many foster homes like that. i even know a couple (some neighbors) that i wish we'rent' foster parents. as i think they can make a childs situation Worse because of little comments i hear them say.
i'm sorry you had to live through that.
BUT remember, you are Done now. they can't and WON'T hurt you anymore!therapy SHOULDN"T replicate pain in the past.
Bad therapist...bad bad BAD therapist!
**************i've seen my share of doosies. you need to just advocate for yourself and say, nope...you're wrong.
and start looking for another one.
pooey on him/her!!!!!*************
Please Please remember. that T obviously has their own issues. it is NOT a reflection of you!
i tell you i've been Less than and Easy client to both my T's and They've been Fantastic about it.
i did have a couple doosies inbetween and one in particular made some comments that hurt me deeply and actually confused me more.but that's what also pushed me to leave and find the best T ever.
Best wishes!
b2c.
poster:B2chica
thread:896081
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