Posted by raisinb on November 11, 2007, at 17:39:25
In reply to What would you do? **multiple triggers** **long**, posted by raisinb on November 11, 2007, at 15:33:05
Thanks, RealMe. That is a good suggestion. I know she consults, but I keep suspecting that person isn't getting the real story because he gets her version.
I should add that objectively, I don't think I'm that horribly burdensome. I have always seen myself as too needy, and I have been trying so hard for the whole time not to let her see that. For two years I didn't call her once except to cancel or reschedule a session (and I didn't pick up when she called so that she didn't have to spend time on the phone with me). Then that got to be too difficult so in the past 7 months we have probably had 5 phone conversations. But I still feel like I deal with most of the bad times alone. So it feels so unfair.
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