Posted by muffled on October 14, 2006, at 0:26:16
In reply to Wanting comfort, posted by Tamar on October 13, 2006, at 6:20:33
Good to hear from you. i been wondering whats up w/you.
I'm sorry bout your T.
It sure sounds like he got something going on in his own life/health. This forgetting thing is odd. Very odd.
I too think it would be an excellent idea to take this post of yours in.
I think it could open up some good dialogue.....or not.
I dunno bout your T?
I know you were not interested in finding another at one time........?
(((((((((((((((Tamar)))))))))))))))))))))
Sorry its hard.
I am doing great w/my T right now...wish you could be doing the same...
You could ask him flat out if he gives a sh*t. I know there was another thread bout that, and I done the same w/my T. I even said that she was just being 'unconditionally accepting' cuz its her job to be.
She tells me regular, that she cares, or that I a special person...but I dunno....
What could he give you???Within the boundaries????
I dunno, I dunno what words you would beleive....cuz I myself have such a hard time w/that...
I guess if you found a diff. T that had different boundaries, then mebbe you could get different things?
Eg, my T would hug me if I wanted.( I don't want !!!)
I think she's a touch kindof person, I think she wants to touch me, but respects that i don't like to be touched.
Everyonce in awhile she forgets nherself and pats my knee! Its actually kinda funny in a sad way.
Sorry this is so long. I'm trying not to think of my own inner battle right now.
Take care Tamar, you ARE a special person, beleive me ...or not.(I don't generally go around lying to people FYI)
Muffled
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