Posted by happyflower on May 3, 2006, at 11:02:53
I have something I need to say to you and it is really hard for me because it isn't want I really want or how I feel but I feel I need to set some of my own boundries in our relationship in order to protect myself.
I really like you, and enjoy your company but our relationship is getting too friendship like and it is causing me to be confused and conflicted. If we were allowed to be more than just T and client, then it would feel great on the progression of our relationship. We do enjoy each other and we do have personal chemistry between us.
But it can't be according to your boundries, so I ask you to please keep yourself out of the room and don't tell me personal stuff about yourself that makes me want more in the relationship that I can't have outside of therapy. I don't want the hurt I am feeling to ruin the good work we have done together, and I don't want to leave therapy with bad feelings about you. Thank you.
poster:happyflower
thread:639591
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