Posted by LittleGirlLost on April 27, 2005, at 12:48:02
In reply to Re: Recent threads combined.... need feedback » LittleGirlLost, posted by thewrite1 on April 26, 2005, at 14:48:08
> It sounds like it would be a good step for you to be able to say it to someone and mean it. However, you should be prepared for your T not to say it back to you.
It's weird, but I actually don't want to hear it in return. I mean it would be nice to hear, and she actually does show it in her actions, but I think it kinda scared me when my last T said it.
> I say all this because I told my T once that I love her. She asked me what kind of love? I explained that it was more like the way a daughter loves her mother.
Exactly!! May I ask you "how" you told her?
I don't really want to plan it out (unlike everything else I say), but it also seems so scary to just blurt out!>I guess what I'm saying is that I know she loves me whether she says it or not.
I completely agree and maybe that is why I don't necessarily want/need to hear it.
~LGL
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