Posted by fallsfall on November 9, 2004, at 12:45:02
In reply to Re: Had second appt. with consulting T today » Dinah, posted by crushedout on November 8, 2004, at 20:02:51
Seeing this therapist seems to be productive for you. I'm really glad. She can help you figure out what the next step should be (go back to old therapist, stay with this one, find a new one, take a break).
Why do you *want* to fall in love with this therapist? That might be worth discussing. Oh, I get it, you mean that you can actually imagine *being* in love with someone other than your old therapist - That there might be "life" after her? That is a good direction to be going in.
My current therapist was quite a bit more expensive than my old one (150 vs. 105), but he is worth every penny... Of course, if it would mean that you couldn't eat or have a roof over your head...
Does she work during hours that are more convenient for you (i.e. is there hope for the future)? Are your work hours flexible at all?
Good luck, Crushedout! It sounds like you are doing a really good job.
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