Posted by karen_kay on November 21, 2003, at 11:52:22
In reply to Re: Big news!, posted by crushedout on November 21, 2003, at 11:21:52
> > > i think you definitely should tell him he was there and that he had one, too! hey, he CONSENTED to it!
>Right, but I'm confused as to where to draw the line. Is there a line? There is being honest and then there is being inappropriate, right? I mean, in real life I would make comments like that all the time, but to my therapist I would make jokes about that. But, now he knows I am being honest. I'm just not sure about where to draw the line. And if I am making him uncomfortable. Well, I don't care about making him uncomfortable. But, I wouldn't wnat him to say, "Now Karen, let's discuss something else." I might cry and I am not a crier!!!
See what I'm getting at?
Where go you draw the line?> well, it's a special, meaningful moment, and it's a sign of growth for you. if he cares about you, he should be happy for you and happy to have been a part of your growth. he can appreciate your sexuality without crossing any boundaries he shouldn't. does that make sense?
<<Yes it sure does! If only he would cross those boundaries :) JUST KIDDING!!!! He's such a great therapist I wouldn't have it any other way!
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