Posted by Lou Pilder on April 24, 2008, at 8:57:40
In reply to Re: Lou's request, posted by Dr. Bob on April 3, 2008, at 9:56:17
> > B. In those criteria,if any, could you allow the statement in question, just because the poster writes that they believe it? If so, how does the fact that the member posting the statement in question that they believe it make the statement any less to the recipiant that {feels} put down or accused when they read it?
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> It depends on the statement. "I believe Dr. Bob has gone overboard" could still lead me to feel accused.
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> > C. If a member objects to you that a statement here makes them feel put down or accused, do you have some way to say to them that the statement in question does not make them feel put down or accused, even though the member reporting writes that they feel accused or put down when they read the statement in question?
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> No, of course not.
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> > If you could reply to any of the above, then I could have the opportunity to respond accordingly.
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> Lou, I welcome feedback, but I can get busy sometimes, and don't have a staff to reply for me, so I'm afraid I can't respond to all posts to me. I hope you understand, and please do feel free to continue to add your voice to the discussion here.
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> BobRobert,
You wrote,[...I welcome feedback, but I can get busy sometimes. and don't have a staff to reply for me, so I am afraid that I can not respond to all posts to me. I hope you understand, and do feel free to continue to add your voice to the discussion here...].
I do understand. I understand that the TOS here is that you write that you take responsibility for what you write here. I do understand that you write here that if one wants to know your rationale to please just ask you. I understand that you write that this administration board is for discussion of the policy, rules, actions that you take and such. I understand that you write that one is to remind you of outstanding requests. I understand that you write that you do what in your thinking will be good for the community as a whole . I understand that you write that others to trust you in what you do here. I understand that you write that it is your policy to want to be fair. I undertstand what you have written here. You have written,[...I can get busy {sometimes}...]. Then you could also not be busy sometimes?. You wrote,[...I don't have a staff to respond for me...]. I am unsure as to what you are wanting to mean here by that because I am asking you about what you wrote as per your writing here that you take responsibility for what you write here, and I am unsure as to if a staff is needed to reply to me for what you have written as that you have replied to others here even for what you have not written here and I am having an expection as per your policy of being {fair} to receive a reply from you.
If you could clarify this for me then I could know if, or if not, what you have written here is any attempt to give any appearance that could have the potential IMO of others thinking as to what you have wriiten is to justify or not or establish a foundation or not, to not reply to me concerning what your TOS writes as per that you welcome feedback and such. I do not see any foundation in what you wrote in question here to justify not answering my concerns to you and if you are wanting to mean from your statement here in question that you are not going to write an answer to me that answers my concerns with your giving me your rationales, and criteria requested and such, then if that is what you are wanting to mean could you confirm that or not? If you could, then I could have the opportunity to respond accordingly.
Lou Pilder
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