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Posted by woolav on October 16, 2006, at 8:47:30
Hi, I have a sick narcissitic stepfather who happens to be rich. I havent talked to him in a year (since a falling out her and my hubby had) but his 60th b-day is saturday and he told my mom if i dont come to the part Im out of the will. So my mom is freaking out bc she feels like my stubborness will lose me a half million dollars in the long run. But I dont want to go bc my husband isnt invited.
what do i do.................................
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Posted by KayLen on October 17, 2006, at 2:46:17
In reply to Stepfather may take me out of Will...., posted by woolav on October 16, 2006, at 8:47:30
> Hi, I have a sick narcissitic stepfather who happens to be rich. I havent talked to him in a year (since a falling out her and my hubby had) but his 60th b-day is saturday and he told my mom if i dont come to the part Im out of the will. So my mom is freaking out bc she feels like my stubborness will lose me a half million dollars in the long run. But I dont want to go bc my husband isnt invited.
> what do i do.................................
> HelpHi,
I guess it depends on how you feel about yourself or how you would feel if you do or dont do it. Personaly...I wouldn't want the money from the crab...and why would you want to sell out so cheap....everyone has a price...
What does your husband think..thats important!
oh and just a little something to think about ...60 in todays world is not so old...If hes healthy he could live to ninety by then maybe alot longer. Is betraying yourself ..acting like you like him for money...really worth it to you? your letting this man yank your chain. Haven't you ever thought of why is he doing this?...lastly...half a mill...today isn't much. OK..surprise..my vote is .........NO WAY!!...I don't know how old you are but you will most likely make your own fortune before he croaks...choose wisely and I wish for you the best life has to give for you and your hubby!!
peace
Kaylen
Posted by karen_kay on October 17, 2006, at 9:33:05
In reply to Stepfather may take me out of Will...., posted by woolav on October 16, 2006, at 8:47:30
more importantly than the money though, do you have a need to reconciliate with this man? if so, why not give it a shot while he's still alive. if there's no need to then why punish yourself after his death by losing out on money that you deserve? i guess it's your call (especially since no one here knows the details of how he's treated you in the past), but if it were me, i'd go. think aobut your future and the future of your family. (sorry if this isn't helpful but i'd go... don't think of it as selling out, think of it as investing in your future.
good luck (and if you get the money, will you send some my way?
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