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Re: utterly and completely confused » Dr. Bob

Posted by alexandra_k on October 2, 2006, at 1:04:52

In reply to Re: utterly and completely confused, posted by Dr. Bob on October 2, 2006, at 0:54:18

> > Is the limit 15 posters all up in Babble chat or 15 posters per room?

> Hmm, good question, I'm not sure.

test16 should let you know.

> Whenever you're in a room, the other people in that room are listed. And the initial login page lists everyone in the open rooms. I don't think there's a way, at least right now, to find out who's in room 2 if you're in room 1...

Dinah suggested that you could look at the login page and infer that whoever wasn't in your room was in the other open room. I guess one would need to refresh the login page periodically to check whether anyone had logged on since you.

It would be nice if after listing the chatters in your room it listed the chatters in the next room. But since there is a way to find out (and since one could just go take a look) I guess it doesn't really matter.

 

Re: utterly and completely confused » alexandra_k

Posted by gardenergirl on October 2, 2006, at 8:23:15

In reply to Re: utterly and completely confused » Dr. Bob, posted by alexandra_k on October 2, 2006, at 1:04:52

I looked in on it when there were about seven or so people in chat. The log in page listed who was chatting and had (room 1) or (room 2), or something like that listed after the screen names.

Regarding the restricted chat room, do you think that all Babblers should be able to view and/or participate in administrative meetings? I wasn't involved in the discussion, so I don't know the basis of your concerns.

gg

 

Re: It's not going to be like the prefect's carria

Posted by Dinah on October 2, 2006, at 10:05:46

In reply to Re: It's not going to be like the prefect's carria » 10derHeart, posted by Jost on October 1, 2006, at 23:34:22

The prefect's carriage (and prefects bathroom) were sort of privileges granted to prefects in Harry Potter. Harry felt left out when Ron and Hermione went to sit in the prefect's carriage, and he had to find other people to sit with. Although he made a new friend in Luna Lovegood. Which is neither here nor there, but was important in plot development.

At any rate, a deputy chat room, the equivilant of a prefect carriage, is not what this is. As gg says, it's more of a conference room. Which is not to say that I approve of Dr. Bob's choices in how to go about this, and think he could have made choices more sensitive to the feelings of others.

I think the two room idea is not necessarily a good one. It's not only confusing, but we've seen the kind of hurt that can arise when people retire there and are less than joyfully welcoming to others that might enter.

Prior experience already would seem to suggest that there should only be one room.

But that's just my opinion, based on what I've seen thus far.

 

Re: It's not going to be like the prefect's carria

Posted by muffled on October 2, 2006, at 11:38:40

In reply to Re: It's not going to be like the prefect's carria, posted by Dinah on October 2, 2006, at 10:05:46

Well I am amazed, and glad I stayed thru the 'discussion', about the rooms.
It was sort of horrible cuz usus. I run, or flap around madly trying to make it stop.
But it was ok in the end, much to my amazement.
It was sorta like a trust thing.
Like I was trusting that people I cared about would come round in the end.
That they wouldn't destroy each other.
And they didn't.....
I am amazed.
Completely delightfully amazed.
So I learned lots.
And it seems to have blown over mostly?
Though I still a little twitchy and afraid the fight will start again....
I think having a private place for admin discussions is very logical, and should proly be very useful to aid in the running of the site.
So I think it will be ok to try two rooms.
I think we need to try and be sensitive of each other in moving from room to room.
I'm not sure how that will work to be honest, but the IDEA seems good.
To have a more serious room, and a room where we can just be silly cuz we trying NOT to feel, and we can do it mostly safely there.
Thanks all.
Muffled

 

Re: IPrivate chat » muffled

Posted by alexandra_k on October 3, 2006, at 11:05:59

In reply to Re: It's not going to be like the prefect's carria, posted by muffled on October 2, 2006, at 11:38:40

> Well I am amazed, and glad I stayed thru the 'discussion', about the rooms.
> It was sort of horrible cuz usus. I run, or flap around madly trying to make it stop.
> But it was ok in the end, much to my amazement.
> It was sorta like a trust thing.
> Like I was trusting that people I cared about would come round in the end.
> That they wouldn't destroy each other.
> And they didn't.....
> I am amazed.
> Completely delightfully amazed.
> So I learned lots.

Thats great Muffled.
:-)

> And it seems to have blown over mostly?
> Though I still a little twitchy and afraid the fight will start again....

It might do... But if it does... You can avoid the threads - right? Like how if there are people in chat and the conversation gets heated then you might be able to find some people to chat with you in another room. I'm glad you stuck around too. ((((Muffled))))

> I think we need to try and be sensitive of each other in moving from room to room.

I agree...
But I also think some kind of sensitive honesty would be even better.
Assertiveness...
I guess people struggle with that too (I know I sure as hell do)
But maybe... It saves more hurts in the long run?

 

Re: It's not going to be like the prefect's carria

Posted by alexandra_k on October 3, 2006, at 11:13:10

In reply to Re: It's not going to be like the prefect's carria, posted by Dinah on October 2, 2006, at 10:05:46

> The prefect's carriage (and prefects bathroom) were sort of privileges granted to prefects in Harry Potter.

Like how restricted chat is a sort of priviledge granted to deputies?

> Harry felt left out when Ron and Hermione went to sit in the prefect's carriage

Like how people might feel left out when the deputies go to restricted chat?

> and he had to find other people to sit with. Although he made a new friend in Luna Lovegood. Which is neither here nor there, but was important in plot development.

lol. Still seeing analogies...

> At any rate, a deputy chat room, the equivilant of a prefect carriage, is not what this is.

It isn't? So non-prefects (deputies) can go there too can they?

> As gg says, it's more of a conference room.

Oh. So if we call it 'conference room' instead of 'gated community' instead of 'private chat' instead of 'exclusive chat' instead of 'small group' instead of 'prefects carriage' then that makes it completely different?

> Which is not to say that I approve of Dr. Bob's choices in how to go about this, and think he could have made choices more sensitive to the feelings of others.

I was pissed...
But I'd rather know upfront than have even more go on behind the scenes...
I seem to be about the only person upset about it at any rate...

> I think the two room idea is not necessarily a good one.

Two rooms or three?

> It's not only confusing, but we've seen the kind of hurt that can arise when people retire there and are less than joyfully welcoming to others that might enter.

Kind of like following the link to restricted chat and finding BAM! One can't enter? How much of a 'less than joyful welcoming' is that?

> Prior experience already would seem to suggest that there should only be one room.

One room, or two?

 

Re: utterly and completely confused » gardenergirl

Posted by alexandra_k on October 3, 2006, at 11:19:28

In reply to Re: utterly and completely confused » alexandra_k, posted by gardenergirl on October 2, 2006, at 8:23:15


> Regarding the restricted chat room, do you think that all Babblers should be able to view and/or participate in administrative meetings?

I guess I thought the admin board was for dealing with admin issues / concerns etc.

People do tend to check the posts regularly - don't they?

 

Re: utterly and completely confused » alexandra_k

Posted by gardenergirl on October 3, 2006, at 14:08:23

In reply to Re: utterly and completely confused » gardenergirl, posted by alexandra_k on October 3, 2006, at 11:19:28

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> > Regarding the restricted chat room, do you think that all Babblers should be able to view and/or participate in administrative meetings?
>
> I guess I thought the admin board was for dealing with admin issues / concerns etc.

I think that's generally true.

But I can't imagine it would be an effective process or all that meaningful to the community if I (or another deputy) were to post here that I encountered an error or some other kind of glitch in the adminstration system while I was trying to complete a deputy task. Or to say, "Heads up. I noticed X, but I won't have time to do Y until Z. Anyone else available?" Or to say, "In the next X weeks, days, months, etc., I'm planning on or have to do Y IRL, so I will not be as available or will be gone until Z." Or, "Gee, Dr. Bob. I wish we had an easier way to do X."

I'm a very curious person by nature, and I prefer being "in the loop" versus "out of the loop" in organizations and groups. So I can relate to feeling outside and how that can feel yucky in a number of different ways.

But I don't know of any large organization or group that is perfectly flat in organizational structure. I'm not sure I could imagine how a perfectly flat organization or group of any signficant number could function effectively for any period of time.

Levels of structure in groups/organizations do foster inclusion and exclusion. I guess I've always experienced this as an artifact of group process and a "necessary evil" of sorts so that groups can function efficiently and effectively.

>
> People do tend to check the posts regularly - don't they?

Sorry, I'm not sure I follow. ??

gg

 

Re: It's not going to be like the prefect's carria » alexandra_k

Posted by Dinah on October 3, 2006, at 14:46:32

In reply to Re: It's not going to be like the prefect's carria, posted by alexandra_k on October 3, 2006, at 11:13:10

I think I've explained my position enough times for me, Alex.

Not going to do it again.

Period.

I'm sorry if you don't agree/understand, but I don't see how repeating myself will help.

 

Re: It's not going to be like the prefect's carria » alexandra_k

Posted by gardenergirl on October 3, 2006, at 16:32:45

In reply to Re: It's not going to be like the prefect's carria, posted by alexandra_k on October 3, 2006, at 11:13:10

> > The prefect's carriage (and prefects bathroom) were sort of privileges granted to prefects in Harry Potter.
>
> Like how restricted chat is a sort of priviledge granted to deputies?

It's a tool, alex. It's not the only one. It's no different from email, listservs, IM's, phone calls, conference calls, etc. It's just a different medium. If you'd like to use "privilege" versus "tools", that's up to you. Either way, it's still about deputies having what they need to best fulfill the obligations we volunteered to take on. Is a firefighter "privileged" to have access to water? If she also has access to infrared imaging to aid in locating victims inside a burning building, is she a "privileged" firefighter? Or is she outfitted well by the department so she can best do her job? (In no way am I equating the importance of firefighters with being a deputy...just a metaphor).


> > Harry felt left out when Ron and Hermione went to sit in the prefect's carriage
>
> Like how people might feel left out when the deputies go to restricted chat?

Feeling left out sucks. I don't know what else to say about this that wouldn't be some sort of platitude or would seem otherwise invalidating.
>
> > At any rate, a deputy chat room, the equivilant of a prefect carriage, is not what this is.
>
> It isn't? So non-prefects (deputies) can go there too can they?

I'm going to assume that's a rhetorical question. Not having read or watched any Harry Potter (gasp!), I have no idea whether it is or isn't equivalent to a prefect's carriage. I do know that it's a space on the internet where members of a group can go to communicate with each other in real(ish) time. One of a gazillion (exaggeration for effect-- I'm not about to start counting). It is what it is, and it isn't what it isn't. And as a mostly "empty space", I suppose it's ambiguous enough for multiple interpretations and assumptions.

So is the issue that the members of a group communicate with each other privately? That's not okay? Or that a "place" exists where not everyone can go? Something else?


> > As gg says, it's more of a conference room.
>
> Oh. So if we call it 'conference room' instead of 'gated community' instead of 'private chat' instead of 'exclusive chat' instead of 'small group' instead of 'prefects carriage' then that makes it completely different?

What do you think, alex? Are you saying there's no difference at all between those different terms? Is there anything inherently wrong with the existence of any of those?

You and I have had private chats. Via email. Via private messages. Via telephone. Was there something wrong with that? Were we being exclusive? Private? Did it indicate something about anyone else that you and I chose to speak privately?

> I was pissed...

I hear that you were/are pissed, even if I don't understand it.

> Kind of like following the link to restricted chat and finding BAM! One can't enter? How much of a 'less than joyful welcoming' is that?

Ouch. That would be aggravating. It doesn't say anything about being restricted until you try to enter?
>
> > Prior experience already would seem to suggest that there should only be one room.
>
> One room, or two?

sigh, why does it always take me so danged long to compose replies to you?

gg

 

Re: utterly and completely confused » gardenergirl

Posted by alexandra_k on October 3, 2006, at 17:47:21

In reply to Re: utterly and completely confused » alexandra_k, posted by gardenergirl on October 3, 2006, at 14:08:23

>But I can't imagine it would be an effective process or all that meaningful to the community if I (or another deputy) were to post here that I encountered an error or some other kind of glitch in the adminstration system while I was trying to complete a deputy task. Or to say, "Heads up. I noticed X, but I won't have time to do Y until Z. Anyone else available?" Or to say, "In the next X weeks, days, months, etc., I'm planning on or have to do Y IRL, so I will not be as available or will be gone until Z." Or, "Gee, Dr. Bob. I wish we had an easier way to do X."

I don't see how it would be ineffective. Deputies could be told that they should be sure to check the admin board regularly. I don't care whether it is meaningful to the community or not.

> I'm not sure I could imagine how a perfectly flat organization or group of any signficant number could function effectively for any period of time.

As we tend to say in philosophy: Be careful not to mistake a failure of imagination for an insight into necessity.

> Levels of structure in groups/organizations do foster inclusion and exclusion. I guess I've always experienced this as an artifact of group process and a "necessary evil" of sorts so that groups can function efficiently and effectively.

"Necessary evil".
If you see something as a "necessary evil" then... Well, it is pointless doing anything about it, of course. We could accept cancer and aids as necessary evils too, of course. Or we could strive to eliminate / reduce the amount of evil in the world.

Would you like to remind me of your stance on small boards?

 

Re: utterly and completely confused » alexandra_k

Posted by Jost on October 3, 2006, at 20:07:26

In reply to Re: utterly and completely confused » gardenergirl, posted by alexandra_k on October 3, 2006, at 17:47:21

> >
> > I'm not sure I could imagine how a perfectly flat organization or group of any signficant number could function effectively for any period of time.
>
> As we tend to say in philosophy: Be careful not to mistake a failure of imagination for an insight into necessity.
>
> >

On the other hand, let's not be careful to avoid all actions that have any negative consequence, because we'd be paralyzed. Also, it occurs to me that doing something, however non-ideal, can lead to doing something else, better, later. Disagreements about what to do, and debates about the various downsides of every possible plan, after a certain point (which we may have reached), again-- leads to not doing anything.

Try doing something in NYC-- very little happens here, because of the clever use of strategies of debate, and appeal-- except mostly disintegration of the infrastructure (until some crisis or near-crisis necessitates the closing, slowing or otherwise diminution of whatever basic service is involved), and the building of tall, rather low-quality, tax-abatement- supported luxury housing. You'll see then, Alex.... (not really--sorry to get off on the wearing effect of living in NYC)-- but there is a point where you just have to do whatever reasonable, but less than perfect, thing.
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If you feel left out, or otherwise that something about it deeply bothers you, maybe we could discuss your feelings--eg, on the psychology board. Discussing feelings doesn't mean there isn't a valid point of principal-- but it can help you address the point of principal more effectively.

Isn't it just possible that the issue is in some respect how you feel about this, as well as the thing itself? Because feeling left out-- is a universal experience (I hope, unless I"m weirder than I thought)-- and it's bad, but you know-- sometimes it can lead to another experience. Prefects' carriage or not (yeah, I didn't see Harry Potter either-- that must be some sort of record-- at least two people who didn't see Harry Potter posting within several days of one another on a message board.).

Jost

 

Re: utterly and completely confused » Jost

Posted by alexandra_k on October 3, 2006, at 20:19:13

In reply to Re: utterly and completely confused » alexandra_k, posted by Jost on October 3, 2006, at 20:07:26

> > >
> > > I'm not sure I could imagine how a perfectly flat organization or group of any signficant number could function effectively for any period of time.

> > As we tend to say in philosophy: Be careful not to mistake a failure of imagination for an insight into necessity.

> On the other hand, let's not be careful to avoid all actions that have any negative consequence, because we'd be paralyzed.

Sure. I'm fairly sure there is a middle ground.

> If you feel left out, or otherwise that something about it deeply bothers you, maybe we could discuss your feelings--eg, on the psychology board...

Funny how that didn't seem to be the line when the discussion was about small boards / gated communities...


 

apples and oranges » alexandra_k

Posted by gardenergirl on October 3, 2006, at 21:23:32

In reply to Re: utterly and completely confused » Jost, posted by alexandra_k on October 3, 2006, at 20:19:13

Small boars/gated communities are *communities*. Smaller. Different. But communities, at least as they seem to have been envisioned.

A work group/team/department/committee/insert other synonyms here gathering to do their work and to communicate in realtime is NOT the same thing. It's not a smaller version of the community. It's a task group.

There is no conflict in holding individual views on each. They have different structures, different functions, different uses, different contexts.

There's nothing wrong with anyone having the same reaction to both, but that does not mean they are the same thing. Let's be clear about what the two constructs are and are not.

 

Re: utterly and completely confused » alexandra_k

Posted by gardenergirl on October 3, 2006, at 21:41:50

In reply to Re: utterly and completely confused » gardenergirl, posted by alexandra_k on October 3, 2006, at 17:47:21

> I don't see how it would be ineffective. Deputies could be told that they should be sure to check the admin board regularly. I don't care whether it is meaningful to the community or not.

Deputies do check the admin board. How would posting on the admin board about something that no one but deputies or Dr. Bob could possibly answer due to the tecnical nature of the question be effective or efficient? If someone else was curious about what I was talking about, who's going to explain it to them? Why would that be desirable or necessary? What benefit could there be in posting questions or comments that are not relevant to board policies or the general experience of the boards in contrast to the extra time it might take to try to explain to someone else just what I was talking about when the other person has never seen it and does not use the feature?

There's something about this I'm missing here. I can't conceive of why anyone would WANT to read that stuff or what benefit there would be to opening it up to everyone when it doesn't apply.


> As we tend to say in philosophy: Be careful not to mistake a failure of imagination for an insight into necessity.

Allright, plain speaking. In my experience working in a variety of organizations as an employee, volunteer, associate, student, beneficiary, etc., I have never encountered any large organization that functioned without at least two layers of structure. Call me unimaginative. I'll call it pragmatic and realistic.


> We could accept cancer and aids as necessary evils too, of course.

You're comparing feeling excluded because of a chat room set up so that deputies and Dr. Bob can communicate in real time every other week or so to cancer and AIDS?
>
> Would you like to remind me of your stance on small boards?

You've forgotten?

gg

 

Re: utterly and completely confused » gardenergirl

Posted by Jost on October 3, 2006, at 22:42:31

In reply to Re: utterly and completely confused » alexandra_k, posted by gardenergirl on October 3, 2006, at 21:41:50

I missed any discussion of small boards.

But, Alex, you've got to admit that gated communities-- by which I assume you mean, a closed communities established for the purpose of excluding so-called "undesireable" others, ie putting up a "gate" that symbolically to imposes seclusion but accomplishes nothing else--

are different from groups that come together to accomplish a (legitimate) purpose, such as organizing a message board, or the publication of a magazine (editorial boards) or giving direction to a university or other non-profit institution (the trustees).

I'm willing to bet that it's a whole lot more tedious than otherwise to be in most of the deputy meetings. It's kind of like grading papers, or giving grades in general. As a student, I always thought that must be incredibly exciting-- to wield that type of power-- etc etc. As a teacher, I found it unbearably wearisome to read exams, papers, to mull over the minutia of exactly what grades to assign, worry about the effects, or reactions of students whose grades weren't what they wanted, and so forth.

I have the feeling this is more like that, than not.

Jost

 

Thank you » Jost

Posted by Racer on October 3, 2006, at 23:02:40

In reply to Re: utterly and completely confused » gardenergirl, posted by Jost on October 3, 2006, at 22:42:31

I just got back from a board meeting. It's our homeowner's association board of directors, we're dealing with a lot of [excrement] related to litigation and major repairs and construction defects and all the idiocy involved in dealing with architects, engineers, and contractors. And just guess how much fun it is?

Tonight's meeting was an executive session -- a meeting closed to the general population of homeowners who are generally welcome to come into our board meetings.

I'm sure there are people who would have a problem with that. But you know what? Those of us on the board have some background knowledge that helps keep these meetings halfway manageable -- we're not stopping the discussion about when to replace the balconies in order to ask what's going to happen to our tomato plants. We already know that that's been dealt with. We already know that that's three items down on the agenda. We already know that the meeting is going to go on until April if we stop to ask that sort of question. What we're certainly NOT doing is discussing other homeowners, nor having fun while excluding them.

I'm sorry Alex is so upset by this. Frankly, I don't understand why it's such a big deal, and I am rather annoyed that it's become a big deal, but I'm still sorry that it's caused pain to someone.

And I guess I'm with GG: I don't know why it takes me s olong to post something to this discussion...

 

:-) (nm) » alexandra_k

Posted by muffled on October 3, 2006, at 23:53:04

In reply to Re: IPrivate chat » muffled, posted by alexandra_k on October 3, 2006, at 11:05:59

 

Re: Deputy issues that don't concern babblers » gardenergirl

Posted by alexandra_k on October 4, 2006, at 15:28:44

In reply to Re: utterly and completely confused » alexandra_k, posted by gardenergirl on October 3, 2006, at 21:41:50

> There is no conflict in holding individual views on each. They have different structures, different functions, different uses, different contexts.

I'm trying to remember the reasons people gave for why they were so opposed to exclusive boards... Things like 'people will feel excluded if they can't post' and 'it will create division on the boards' and stuff like that. I'm wondering why people think that those reasons aren't applicable to restricted chat rooms. I particularly remember a conversation about how it wasn't a good idea to have exclusive boards because people would feel like they were being slapped if they tried to goto the board / post on the board and got a message that they couldn't. I'm wondering why the person who was concerned about that isn't concerned about that in this case?

I know they aren't the same thing. They seem to be similar in relevant respects and hence yes I am surprised that people go one way on one of those and the other way on the other. Surprised. Yeah.

> Deputies do check the admin board.

Right then. So there is a forum already for admin issues and once a post is posted I guess people read the post without it going AWOL or whatever too...

> How would posting on the admin board about something that no one but deputies or Dr. Bob could possibly answer due to the tecnical nature of the question be effective or efficient?

What a high opinion you have on the deputies and Dr Bob! Don't mistake a failure of imagination into an insight into necessity. I think that other Babblers have shown an interest in how things are done here, and I think that other Babblers have demonstrated technical competence at times, too.

> If someone else was curious about what I was talking about, who's going to explain it to them?

Nobody has an obligation to answer posts to the best of my knowledge. Especially not on the admin board as the purpose isn't support.

> Why would that be desirable or necessary?

It isn't necessary. It might be desirable...

> What benefit could there be in posting questions or comments that are not relevant to board policies or the general experience of the boards...

> There's something about this I'm missing here. I can't conceive of why anyone would WANT to read that stuff or what benefit there would be to opening it up to everyone when it doesn't apply.

Maybe some examples of deputy issues that are 'not relevant to board policies or the general experience of the boards' and deputy issues that 'doesn't apply' to Babblers would help.

 

Re: excluding others in order to bond... » Jost

Posted by alexandra_k on October 4, 2006, at 15:38:30

In reply to Re: utterly and completely confused » gardenergirl, posted by Jost on October 3, 2006, at 22:42:31

The issue around small boards...

Babble has become a big city. Lots of posters. There are benefits to big cities, but there can be costs too... Dr Bob thought it might be nice to have some small town boards too. Boards whose membership numbers were restricted so that people could get to know one another better and feel freer to post without being misunderstood. To promote a bonding experience.

It was unclear how they were going to work. Would they be invitation only? Would it be first come first served? How many people should there be? Should there be a new small board opened whenever there were enough people who were interested? Should the content be viewable by people who couldn't post to the board?

They were met with serious opposition.

I can remember some of the reasons people gave for *why* they were so objectionable:

- People will feel excluded
- It will be just like a 'gated community' / 'exclusive community' etc
- People will feel slapped if they try to enter / post but are prevented
- It will create division on the boards

I know that a private chat room for deputies is different from a private board. One is a room, the other is a board, I understand the difference.

What I don't understand, however, is why those reasons that people had *against* small boards don't apply to private chat?

Just trying to understand...

 

Re: :-) » muffled

Posted by alexandra_k on October 4, 2006, at 15:43:20

In reply to :-) (nm) » alexandra_k, posted by muffled on October 3, 2006, at 23:53:04

hey muffled

((((((((((muffled))))))))))))

;-)

 

Re: A possible solution

Posted by Deneb on October 4, 2006, at 16:10:24

In reply to Re: Deputy issues that don't concern babblers » gardenergirl, posted by alexandra_k on October 4, 2006, at 15:28:44

It seems like the main problem is that people will feel excluded, so why not include posters sometimes?

How about if Dr. Bob and the deputies chat with posters for a while before their meetings in reserved chat? Twice a month or something the deputies and Dr. Bob can have a meeting with posters in chat room 1 to talk about admin stuff. It will give posters an opportunity to voice their concerns and opinions in real time. After the chat with posters, the deputies and Dr. Bob can move to reserved to discuss deputy stuff. The admin-poster chat could take a specified amount of time, like 30 mins or something. Everyone will have an opportunity to talk to Dr. Bob this way.

Deneb*

 

We obviously don't agree » alexandra_k

Posted by gardenergirl on October 4, 2006, at 16:39:28

In reply to Re: Deputy issues that don't concern babblers » gardenergirl, posted by alexandra_k on October 4, 2006, at 15:28:44


> I'm trying to remember the reasons people gave for why they were so opposed to exclusive boards...

I'm sure it's in the archives somewhere.

> I'm wondering why people think that those reasons aren't applicable to restricted chat rooms.

Which people?

> I particularly remember a conversation about how it wasn't a good idea to have exclusive boards because people would feel like they were being slapped if they tried to goto the board / post on the board and got a message that they couldn't. I'm wondering why the person who was concerned about that isn't concerned about that in this case?

Did you ask this person? Have you considered that circumstances might be different within and/or without the person which might lead him or her to a different reaction to a new concept? Is there something unacceptable about that?
>
> I know they aren't the same thing. They seem to be similar in relevant respects and hence yes I am surprised that people go one way on one of those and the other way on the other. Surprised. Yeah.

It's dangerous to predict or assume how someone will view any specific situation.
>
> > Deputies do check the admin board.
>
> Right then. So there is a forum already for admin issues and once a post is posted I guess people read the post without it going AWOL or whatever too...

Humminahh?
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> > How would posting on the admin board about something that no one but deputies or Dr. Bob could possibly answer due to the tecnical nature of the question be effective or efficient?
>
> What a high opinion you have on the deputies and Dr Bob!

:-|

> Don't mistake a failure of imagination into an insight into necessity.

You can say *that* again.

> I think that other Babblers have shown an interest in how things are done here, and I think that other Babblers have demonstrated technical competence at times, too.

Certainly.
>
> > If someone else was curious about what I was talking about, who's going to explain it to them?
>
> Nobody has an obligation to answer posts to the best of my knowledge. Especially not on the admin board as the purpose isn't support.

True. And there is also no obligation to post questions or concerns to the board. I suppose that each of us decides how best to get our needs met and direct our energies to that end.
>
> > Why would that be desirable or necessary?
>
> It isn't necessary. It might be desirable...

Heck, even Donald Trump is reportedly desirable. Ya got me there. Doesn't mean it's going to happen, though.
>

>
> Maybe some examples of deputy issues that are 'not relevant to board policies or the general experience of the boards' and deputy issues that 'doesn't apply' to Babblers would help.

See earlier post.

alex, I seem to want to reassure you about this, and clearly I can't. I don't wish to keep going 'round about it, either. I really don't want to feel angry about someone else's issue.

gg

 

Re: I think the point may be getting lost... » gardenergirl

Posted by alexandra_k on October 4, 2006, at 17:49:46

In reply to We obviously don't agree » alexandra_k, posted by gardenergirl on October 4, 2006, at 16:39:28

> > I'm wondering why people think that those reasons aren't applicable to restricted chat rooms.

> Which people?

The people who thought that those reasons meant that there shouldn't be small boards. I think a fair few people agreed with those reasons. They thought that was precisely why there shouldn't be small boards.

I'm just having trouble seeing how those reasons don't apply to this instance.

It is about... Consistency.

Maybe there are other reasons for not wanting small boards? If so, then perhaps those other reasons don't apply to this case. Or perhaps there aren't other reasons for not wanting small boards in which case... I guess that consistency would require that small boards really aren't that objectionable after all.

This isn't so very much about opposition to restricted chat as it is about support for small boards. I'll admit I was a bit confused / upset about it to start with... I still think that the admin board is a good place to talk about admin. That is precisely what the admin board is for, I would have thought.

Another thing that bears on this issue is Dr Bob asking specifically what the deputies think. Kind of implies that if others say what they think they are butting in to the conversation and he doesn't care what other people think about the issue.

But maybe he will get better with that...

Another thing is his tendency to say 'it was the deputies idea' when it was not. Or 'the deputies decided' when they did not, they just went along with what he had decided already. Or 'we decided that' when he really meand 'I decided that'.

There have been problems with that already and I anticipate still more.

I guess the nature of the admin board is changing... We get to discuss things like what colour chat should be and how many lines we get in Babblemail and the real policy decisions won't really be on admin anymore.

> I suppose that each of us decides how best to get our needs met and direct our energies to that end.

I'm concerned about what is best for the group.

And I'm concerned that Dr Bob is thinking that a certain amount of inclusion / exclusion dynamics are inevitable. But he should be careful not to mistake a failure of imagination for an insight into necessity too. Sure, I understand that sometimes people just will feel what they feel. But my point is that if he considers those dynamics to be 'inevitable' then he won't really consider what he can do to minimise those dynamics. He won't really be concerned with minimising them. Why put energy or effort into what is inevitable? There would be little point.

> I really don't want to feel angry about someone else's issue.

This is an admin issue gg. Or maybe... Only deputies get to deal with the real admin issues now and what non-deputies have to say is... Of little concern.

I'm sorry... I don't understand why anger.

 

Re: A possible solution » Deneb

Posted by alexandra_k on October 4, 2006, at 18:02:51

In reply to Re: A possible solution, posted by Deneb on October 4, 2006, at 16:10:24


There are a limited number of people who can enter chat.
Currently... 15. At the moment there are...
4 deputies and Dr Bob. (I think 4 deputies).
So that means 10 other people can go along.
The time might be inconvenient for some people who want to go.
Half an hour for 15 people would give each person...
Around 2 minutes.
And with the time delay...

I don't see what is wrong with the admin board.



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