Posted by alexandra_k on October 3, 2006, at 11:05:59
In reply to Re: It's not going to be like the prefect's carria, posted by muffled on October 2, 2006, at 11:38:40
> Well I am amazed, and glad I stayed thru the 'discussion', about the rooms.
> It was sort of horrible cuz usus. I run, or flap around madly trying to make it stop.
> But it was ok in the end, much to my amazement.
> It was sorta like a trust thing.
> Like I was trusting that people I cared about would come round in the end.
> That they wouldn't destroy each other.
> And they didn't.....
> I am amazed.
> Completely delightfully amazed.
> So I learned lots.Thats great Muffled.
:-)> And it seems to have blown over mostly?
> Though I still a little twitchy and afraid the fight will start again....It might do... But if it does... You can avoid the threads - right? Like how if there are people in chat and the conversation gets heated then you might be able to find some people to chat with you in another room. I'm glad you stuck around too. ((((Muffled))))
> I think we need to try and be sensitive of each other in moving from room to room.
I agree...
But I also think some kind of sensitive honesty would be even better.
Assertiveness...
I guess people struggle with that too (I know I sure as hell do)
But maybe... It saves more hurts in the long run?
poster:alexandra_k
thread:690598
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