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Posted by rainy on October 19, 2004, at 16:35:12
In reply to Topomax and bipolar II, posted by bridgey1128 on October 19, 2004, at 15:31:25
Bridgey, may I add a different interpretation to foot in mouth disease? Mine is the kind that comes with loss of judgement. Like in what might be called a confirmation class (13 fourteen year olds, all of us Unitarian Universalists, if that means anything--very liberal). I used the term "poop-head" to illustrate what not to call some one in a put down. (Sorry, Dr. Bob.) I further allowed myself to be suckered into a two minute discussion of a sex act before I stopped it (I used to be a medical social worker in a family planning clinic)and further, told five of the worst behaving students that I wanted them to shut up. All of this while my husband, the minister, had left me alone while he went to get pizzas because the parent who was supposed to bring them didn't.
I lost my so called clear thinking when he left me alone with the hungry, already unruly kids. I simply could not restore order. I blame the almost immediate return to adolescence on my part on the Topamax, as well as my personality.
Would it have happened if I hadn't been on meds? Would I have obsessed about it for two weeks if I weren't "stabilized" in the depressed stage of bipolar II?
I say things that are inappropriate and don't even realize I've done so until later, although I realized these guys right away. That's a little different than the runaway talking that Bridgey writes about. Maybe they're both a function of the disorder and have nothing to do with the medication?
linda
Posted by bridgey1128 on October 19, 2004, at 17:18:18
In reply to Re: Topomax and bipolar II, posted by rainy on October 19, 2004, at 16:35:12
Topomax should actually HELP control those...not CAUSE those. I have never heard of it causing those symptoms. If it does, then it's not the drug for you. There are so many others out there for bipolar II. That doesn't sound like stablization. That sounds like meds not working at all. That's just a classic example of bipolar II, flat out, without medication. I don't think it was the Topomax, I just don't think it was working for you.
Posted by iris2 on October 19, 2004, at 17:33:28
In reply to Topomax and bipolar II, posted by bridgey1128 on October 19, 2004, at 15:31:25
I get bladder pain from a disease I have called interstitial cystitis. It does sound an awful lot like me this BP2. I never heard about it. I talk constantly but I thought most of it was from the ritalin. Not always sure. I have all the symptoms you describe. I thought about the Strattera to take instead of the ritalin for symptoms of depression that are like ADD. Consentration and fatigue. The same reasons I take the Ritalin. I also already see achiropractor every week for my neck. It has startd to help. Thanks for the information.
Irene
Posted by rainy on October 19, 2004, at 20:07:36
In reply to Re: Topomax and bipolar II, posted by bridgey1128 on October 19, 2004, at 17:18:18
Yow. I felt awful on lamictal, plus my hair came out in handfuls. What else is there?
I think I've mentioned that Topamax is useful in keeping an old, old eating disorder at bay, so I'm unwilling to go off even if it messes with my mind--I think. I'm tired of fighting.
linda
Posted by merry on October 19, 2004, at 20:23:38
In reply to Re: Topomax and bipolar II, posted by bridgey1128 on October 19, 2004, at 17:18:18
I have bipolar II with rapid cycling and I understand about the talking too fast and inappropriate subjects that jump out of my mouth and the angry outburst and (insatiable sex drive). My ex-husband used to call it the jeckel and hyde syndrome, because the other me is so quiet and sweet,hee hee. Topomax seems to be keeping me calmer these days. I was on 200mg for a long while and then I had a rare manic phase. I usually am mostly depressed and sometimes alittle hypo but rarely manic. (It was kind of fun, but scary too) so my pdoc is increasing my topomax to 400mg. I'm a little nervous about going so high on the dose.
Posted by merry on October 19, 2004, at 20:38:11
In reply to Re: Topomax and bipolar II » bridgey1128, posted by rainy on October 19, 2004, at 20:07:36
I'm sorry I just came in here, I'm new and my name is merry. My pdoc has increased my dose of topomax. I was on 200mg. 100mg morn. 100mg nite. Now he wants me to go to 400mg. Starting 150 morn 150 nite 2wks then 200 morn and 200 nite after that. I started on Fri. and I am sick as a dog. I can't eat. Everything smells bad. I feel anxiety, I can't sleep, I have vivid dreams almost nightmares, I get hotflashes...(Maybe I'm old enough for those now, 36yrs?) I don't know. I feel confused and irritable. HOw long is all this supposed to last? I don't remember feeling this way the first time I started taking topomax. My pdoc isn't very helpful and I am looking for a new one so I hope that maybe someone can give me some advice. thanx. merry
Posted by Stressee on October 20, 2004, at 7:59:59
In reply to Re: Topomax and bipolar II, posted by merry on October 19, 2004, at 20:38:11
If you or anyone can remember, how did you feel on 200 mg per day? M is taking it, and is on 75mg am and 50 pm until later then she goes up 25mg in the pm. I did it backwards, I know!! She says she has had ringing in her ears for around 24 hrs. Is that normal? No other side-effects except the tingling. No decrease in appetite, but I think it is starting to help the binging. She says it is, but who know with a 16 yr. old. I can tell you I'm like a Jykle and Hyde, and I don't have Bipolar II that I know of. I am going to ask to be switched off my wellbutrin, because I don't think it works all that well. As for eating, everyone, it seems lately that if I see it, I'm going to eat it. I started trying to eat "healthfully" yesterday, and I hate it. UG!!! I work at a fitness center and I came to the conclusion that I should practice what I preach. Right? Keep telling me that PLEASE. -L
Posted by bridgey1128 on October 20, 2004, at 8:55:38
In reply to Re: Topomax and bipolar II » bridgey1128, posted by iris2 on October 19, 2004, at 17:33:28
Merry, that is a pretty name, btw, you are having the problems you are having due to the stupidity of your Dr. You should NEVER EVER EVER go up on Topomax that quickly!!!! EVER!! It should ONLY be gone up in SMALL 25mg increments every 2-3 weeks and you should ONLY go up to the next dosage after YOU and ONLY you feel that the side effects have worn off. Everything you have said, the anxiety, sweating, etc..this is NOT good and not something that should be a normal side effect if a Dr knew what he was doing and you were going up slowly on the drug. Tingling, and the bad taste I have heard a lot but the anxiety is a bad one. Loss of eyesight is another one that I had. Dr's DON'T KNOW EVERYTHING! Trust your own body, and your body is saying...STOP STOP STOP!!!! BACK OFF!!! The vivid dreams? I had hallucinations! But mine was because I needed to go UP on my meds and I hadn't for 2 months. I am telling you, DON'T listen to your Dr. INSIST that he let you go by what your body is saying. This is a fairly new drug and Dr's HATE to admit they don't know everything. We only give advice based on all our experiences combined and that experience is....GO UP VERY SLOWLY. MErry, do yourself a favor, and stay at the dosage where you are until you feel these side effects dissapate. You may even want to back off the dosage to the next down. He wrecklessly upped you full steam ahead and I can't stand that! It's like some Dr's have no clue about the side effects, or don't care. 400mg isn't too much. I have been doing well at 150mg for about 2 months and then suddenly I started breaking into my hypomania again. Extreme irritability and all.. I knew it was time to go up again. So once again, it's time to go up. And I will go up in 25mg increments. You always start with the highest dose in the evenings. That is also why you feel crappy.
Largest dose in the evening and the smallest in the morning. When the dosage evens out, like 100mg night and 100mg morning, when you have to up it again, you start adding to the night time dosage, because it can make you nauseous taking a higher amount in the morning. I hope this has been helpful and please stay with us! We always enjoy new people!
Posted by rainy on October 20, 2004, at 16:06:49
In reply to Re: Topomax and bipolar II, posted by Stressee on October 20, 2004, at 7:59:59
> If you or anyone can remember, how did you feel on 200 mg per day? M is taking it, and is on 75mg am and 50 pm until later then she goes up 25mg in the pm. I did it backwards, I know!! She says she has had ringing in her ears for around 24 hrs. Is that normal? No other side-effects except the tingling. No decrease in appetite, but I think it is starting to help the binging. She says it is, but who know with a 16 yr. old. I can tell you I'm like a Jykle and Hyde, and I don't have Bipolar II that I know of. I am going to ask to be switched off my wellbutrin, because I don't think it works all that well. As for eating, everyone, it seems lately that if I see it, I'm going to eat it. I started trying to eat "healthfully" yesterday, and I hate it. UG!!! I work at a fitness center and I came to the conclusion that I should practice what I preach. Right? Keep telling me that PLEASE. -L
i felt crabby, and every time I went up 25 mgs I felt crabbier. There was a whole lot of other stuff going on in my life though, like moving and not liking our new house or the swampy weather. But I have noticed that with each titration up there's a period of irritability.
linda
Posted by bridgey1128 on October 21, 2004, at 8:41:15
In reply to Re: Topomax and bipolar II » Stressee, posted by rainy on October 20, 2004, at 16:06:49
rainy what are you taking it for?
Posted by rainy on October 21, 2004, at 9:10:06
In reply to Re: Topomax and bipolar II, posted by bridgey1128 on October 21, 2004, at 8:41:15
Bipolar II, although the pdoc who originally prescribed it was treating me for major depressive disorder. It's been a pretty decent mood stabilizer, better than lamictal, for me. I've gotten stuck in a depression since I had to stop serzone, go back on wellbutrin (and now off again) and start 200 mgs desreyl.
I just seem to be making more frequent trips into the Land of Tactless lately and am wondering if the topamax is messing with my judgement.
rainy
Posted by bridgey1128 on October 21, 2004, at 10:21:21
In reply to Re: Topomax and bipolar II » bridgey1128, posted by rainy on October 21, 2004, at 9:10:06
People who have bipolar shouldn't take antidepressants and Welbutrin is one of them. I am assuming it might be the Welbutrin that is messing you up. How long have you taken it? Topomax shouldn't CAUSE irritability, it should help relieve it, especially since you are bipolar II and that is a symptom of it. I find that very confusing that it would cause something it is supposed to be relieving. Unfortunately, being bipolar, we don't have too many drugs that aren't straight antidepressants that we can take compared to the tons of antidepresants out there. Welbutrin made me BONKERS!!!! It did the same thing to me. I can't take antidepressants because they just don't work. I would be more likely to suspect the Welbutrin than I would the Topomax. Also, how slowly are you going up on the Topomax? If you are going up too fast, that can cause some wacky side effects. Going up any faster than 25mg every 2-3 weeks will do it. That could be a cause too.
Posted by iris2 on October 21, 2004, at 10:32:34
In reply to Re: Topomax and bipolar II, posted by rainy on October 19, 2004, at 16:35:12
> Bridgey, may I add a different interpretation to foot in mouth disease? Mine is the kind that comes with loss of judgment. Like in what might be called a confirmation class (13 fourteen year olds, all of us Unitarian Universalists, if that means anything--very liberal). I used the term "poop-head" to illustrate what not to call some one in a put down. (Sorry, Dr. Bob.) I further allowed myself to be suckered into a two minute discussion of a sex act before I stopped it (I used to be a medical social worker in a family planning clinic)and further, told five of the worst behaving students that I wanted them to shut up. All of this while my husband, the minister, had left me alone while he went to get pizzas because the parent who was supposed to bring them didn't.
> I lost my so called clear thinking when he left me alone with the hungry, already unruly kids. I simply could not restore order. I blame the almost immediate return to adolescence on my part on the Topamax, as well as my personality.
> Would it have happened if I hadn't been on meds? Would I have obsessed about it for two weeks if I weren't "stabilized" in the depressed stage of bipolar II?
> I say things that are inappropriate and don't even realize I've done so until later, although I realized these guys right away. That's a little different than the runaway talking that Bridgey writes about. Maybe they're both a function of the disorder and have nothing to do with the medication?
> linda
>
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> Some symptoms of bipolar II are, but not limited to, extreme irritability, excessive talkativeness (foot in mouth syndrome), I find that I have had that problem. It's like I couldn't stop talking. It was a compulsion. Even though I knew I might be getting on people's nerves, I was SOOO wired and hyper because I was around other people, I couldn't stop talking. Bipolar II isn't like manic depression, which is bipolar I. You don't have feelings of grandeur, where you feel indestrucible. I have, however, gone out and spent money I don't really have, although it hasn't been excessive like one would do in bipolar I. Not hundreds of dollars at a time or staying gone for days at a time and not sleeping. Depression has hit me REALLY hard at times though. Suicidal, worthlessness. Not wanting to get out of bed, but I had to make myself because I have two kids. Anger. I get really angry when I am depressed. I become violent to myself. I used to be a "cutter". I was never that bad compared to some people though. I get irrational and I am prone to anxiety attacks. Those are just a few examples. I guess individual people react in different ways but similarly. Bipolar II is more depression than "hypomania". It's not a full blown mania like in bipolar I. That is why is takes us so long to be diagnosed.
A couple of nerves were hit here. First I am Unitarian Universalist and second it all kind of adds up to me being Bipolar II.I am all of the symptoms Bridgey wrote. Inappropriate speech and what I call constant "chatter". I thought the "chatter was mostly from the Ritalin which is the main reason why I wanted to find a new med, Strattera that would motivate me a little and give me energy without causing the "chatter". The inappropriate speaking I thought was from my own immaturity and so little going on in my life that I had not a lot to talk about. Since I talk so much and cannot stand silence when I am around people I thought this was it. I do not realize until later how inappropriate what I said might have been or sometimes how much I chatter although I have made great effort and strides not to chatter so much and to realize when I do so that I can stop it. I do notice that when I do not take the Ritalin I generally do not have this "chatter" problem.
So I get extremely irritable, talk excessively. I get so wired and hyper around others it IS like a compulsion and I cannot stop the talking. I lost my best friend this got so bad for a while. It is one of the reasons I stopped taking so much Ritalin. I probably felt a little better on more but know one could stand to be around me now I myself.
I recently told a couple of guys I hardly knew, on a hike, about how my mother buys my underwear as a tradition every year which might not have been so bad except I continued and told them of this very sexy underwire/lacy/garter thing she bought me when I was 17 and how I showed it to my brother and he said I would not have to wear it I could just hold it up for a guy. These people had met me one time before. They joked about it for some time and I cannot tell you how embarrassed I was. It was not in any context of any conversation either! The Ritalin might make me "chatter" more but it does not put the words in my mouth.
I get anxious and angry when I am depressed too. I used to cut or bang my head against the wall. Then for a while I threw stuff all the time and screamed at my dogs. I am getting better. I have not cut for years now or banged my hands or head. I rarely throw something but I still yell at the dogs and the thin air. The poor dogs get yelled at for nothing and one of them is afraid and hides. I feel so guilty afterwards. I never have a feeling of Grandeur or hypomania. I never have much energy at all. The only time I get some strange amount of energy is very few times when I have become so irritated and had a kind of anxiety attack about how bad the mess and clutter in my house is and I spent like an hour or two just throwing things away. I would have more energy in that hour or so and get more done than I do in months. The anxiety would keep me going and usually I cried the whole time. Then it would abruptly end and I would be all sweaty with no energy again. I do the shopping thing too. I have NO money as I am on disability but every now and again I throw caution to the wind and just go out and buy things that I generally need but have been doing without. And I buy them all in one day not just say to myself I need this one thing. I usually overdraw on my account and have to ask my family for help. I know if I had more money that I would not have near the inhibition and spend a lot more.
I am over speaking again. I can always tell when my posts are so long that I have taken my Ritalin within the last hour, which is exactly true.
Wrote all of this because after reading what the two of you wrote about Bipolar II I thought I should actually have this diagnosis. What is anyone’s opinion?
Irene
Posted by bridgey1128 on October 21, 2004, at 11:03:52
In reply to Re: Topomax and bipolar II » rainy, posted by iris2 on October 21, 2004, at 10:32:34
First..what does being a Unitarian Universalist have to do with anything..I am confused about that one...but anyway..I hate to tell you Irene..but the angry outburst and all you said...that HONESTLY fits the bipolar II and you do NOT need to be on ritalin!!!!! WHY OH WHY are you on it? You have not explained this. If you are on it for an "upper" and you are not ADHD...it makes me wonder what purpose you would have this prescription, as this is an ADHD drug. If you are bipolar you cannot be ADHD. The two have similar symptoms but if actually NEEDED the ritalin it should not make you hyper. In fact, it seems to be putting you into a hypomanic state. The yelling and such is just that. If ritalin causes you to be hyper, you should not take it. IT"S SPEED MY DEAR!!! In people who genuinely NEED it, it should not cause you to be hyper. My son is ADHD, and because he is, his brain chemistry is wired differently. When he takes a stimulant drug, it causes him to be able to concentate, to CALM him. Of course, this can backfire, because too much of a drug like ritalin can make obsessive behaviors worse, because it can cause a child to concentrate on an obsessive behavior. If someone takes a stimulant drug who does not NEED one, it is QUITE obvious. If you are bipolar and take ritalin, it would most obivously give you the wired results you described. What you did describe is an addiction. You need to get OFF the ritalin and go to a psychiatrist and be diagnosed with the right diagnoses. I think you sound like you are definately bipolar II, NOT ADHD. Whereas, they have some similar characteristics, the fact that you are taking ritalin and it is putting you into a hypomanic state, tells me that you are NOT ADHD and, in fact, probably bipolar. If you are, being on the correct drug will help with the mood swings and energy level. I know EXACTLY what you are talking about. I am a self abuser too. I tend to hit myself in the head when I am angry and yell. I know when I need to go up on my meds too because I get frustrated and tend to throw things around as well. Things get "hidden" and "lost". Also, if you were taking too much Ritalin you wouldn't be hyper if you were ADHD, you would be sluggish and doped. The fact that you were extremely talkative when you were taking a lot of Ritalin also makes me think you shouldn't be taking it. Think about it. It's methylphenidate. It's essentially "speed". I don't know how you are getting it, or how you were prescribed it, but I think you really need to rethink taking it.
Posted by merry on October 21, 2004, at 11:34:59
In reply to Re: Topomax and bipolar II, posted by bridgey1128 on October 21, 2004, at 10:21:21
I was wondering about the welbutrin. I feel since I've been on it I've been bonkers. Because I am bipolar II wouldn't the darn doc know not to put me on that stuff it will irritate the heck out of me. I notice since i've been on it I've been angry all the time. My anger outburst are even worse than ever. I expressed my concerns to my doc and that I suspected that It was the Wella. and he just dismissed it and told me to take more xanax whenever I felt I was going to get angry. But I never new when that was going to happen because before I knew it the damage was done and I was patching another hole in the wall or cleaning up the broken nic nacs from the floor. So anyway, I am looking for another doc. and thanks for the advice about the topomax. I decreased it down by 25mg and I am feeling alittle better now. merry
Posted by redscarlet on October 21, 2004, at 11:43:10
In reply to Re: Topomax and bipolar II, posted by bridgey1128 on October 21, 2004, at 10:21:21
> People who have bipolar shouldn't take antidepressants and Welbutrin is one of them. I am assuming it might be the Welbutrin that is messing you up. How long have you taken it? Topomax shouldn't CAUSE irritability, it should help relieve it, especially since you are bipolar II and that is a symptom of it. I find that very confusing that it would cause something it is supposed to be relieving. Unfortunately, being bipolar, we don't have too many drugs that aren't straight antidepressants that we can take compared to the tons of antidepresants out there. Welbutrin made me BONKERS!!!! It did the same thing to me. I can't take antidepressants because they just don't work. I would be more likely to suspect the Welbutrin than I would the Topomax. Also, how slowly are you going up on the Topomax? If you are going up too fast, that can cause some wacky side effects. Going up any faster than 25mg every 2-3 weeks will do it. That could be a cause too.
***Sorry but this is just not true. Many, many people with bipolar (including myself) take antidepressants along with their mood stabilizer.
And just an F.Y.I., I'm on welbutrin & have been taking it for almost a year with no problems & I take 450mgs everyday.
Posted by Stressee on October 21, 2004, at 11:52:41
In reply to Re: Topomax and bipolar II » rainy, posted by iris2 on October 21, 2004, at 10:32:34
Woa! I have never been diagnosed as bipolar II, but what you just wrote is exactly how I act and feel. In fact, I am having one of those days now. I called a sub for my class because I just couldn't concentrate and felt like crying every moment this morning. My daughter and I weren't getting along this morning and when I get upset, I can't handle ANYTHING. I take Wellbutrin and I now realize it's not doing anything for me. I socially withdraw myself when things are getting stressful and I don't think that's normal after reading what everyone is writing these days. I also do much innapropriate yelling at kids and animals when I am upset, and also feel guilty as heck afterwards. The guilt then eats away at me and makes me more depressed. I sometimes don't want to get up in the morning because I just don't want to have to deal with the day. What do you think? -L
Posted by Stressee on October 21, 2004, at 12:28:29
In reply to Re: Topomax and bipolar II, posted by Stressee on October 21, 2004, at 11:52:41
My mind is off somewhere else......M increased her dosage to 150 mg per day of Topamax. We did have a small one question one answer disgussion last night (that's about all I can get),and she hasn't noticed it helping the binging yet. Should we stick with this? She has ringing in her ears, as well as tingling in the feet. I think I remember someone posted that the binging usually doesn't come under control until a large dose is taken. I don't think her DR. plans on titrating up anymore. I think it has controlled her moods a little more though. -L
Posted by rainy on October 21, 2004, at 14:46:48
In reply to Re: Topomax, posted by Stressee on October 21, 2004, at 12:28:29
I went to the grocery store and things sort of went in different directions while I was gone! Let me respond first to Bridgey, I think, who reminded me that going up too fast on Topomax can cause problems. Agreed. The thing is, I've been on this dose (300) since March or maybe I've gone down from (400) which is what's making me wonder about my big fat mouth.
And, I've been on Wellbutrin with first positive results and then a gradual zilch out sinc 1991. As for the Unitarian bit, I think I mentioned it just to indicate that for me to use "poop-head" in the Coming of Age class wasn't as horrible a transgression as it might have been in a less tolerant religious community, but it was unnecessary and I apologize.
A thought for Stressee and Iris. It took me years to be diagnosed. I began having what I now know are symptoms when I was about 15, but it wasn't until I was in my 50's that I finally sought psychiatric help for depression. That's what I was treated for until two years ago last summer, when the pdoc in a new community said "You are bipolar II, have some Lamictal."
My behavior hadn't changed all that much except I was more frantic, four days after moving in, when she first saw me. Since two other shrinks had missed the diagnosis, I think it would be hard for you or friendly strangers on the board to diagnose yourselves or anybody else. I'm still trying to rediagnose myself!
I don't want to sound unsympathetic, it's just that I can't say, yeah, it sounds like you've got bipolar II when I'm still trying to figure out if I've "got it" or if it's just me coming on too strong.
Am I making sense or sounding stuffy?
I think we all speak from our own experiences.(duh) I am really appreciating hearing from you--I felt, despite knowing better, that I was hanging in there by myself. I'm still not sure what racing thoughts are. I know I can't stop thinking sometimes. Is that it?
rainy
Posted by Stressee on October 21, 2004, at 15:49:28
In reply to Re: Topomax » Stressee, posted by rainy on October 21, 2004, at 14:46:48
Diagnosing myself has rubbed off from living with my hubby for so long. We laugh about him trying to diagonse himself and everyone else!! I am going to make an appt. with my dr to discuss these things. As for racing thoughts, I don't know what they are. Sometimes I fee as if my brain is frozen, and I can't concentrate or grasp what I am reading or trying to learn. Then again, that could be the "ditsy" coming out in me. As for foot in mouth; I am THE PROFESSIONAL! No kidding. Sometimes it's so bad that I come home and re-think about everything I said, worrying if someone would have taken it the wrong way. Many times they do, and tell me about it later. Why can't I just shut up when I'm ahead? -L
Posted by iris2 on October 21, 2004, at 16:11:39
In reply to Re: Topomax » Stressee, posted by rainy on October 21, 2004, at 14:46:48
Rainy,
We are all here well intentioned. I think it is wise to remember that we all come from our own experiences though. Also that symptoms are common to many different diagnosis. What might seem self evident to someone might not be the case because things are never as simple as they appear. Especially on a board like this where all we know about each other are what we selectively choose to type. Understood the religous reference.
Anyway I do not think the Ritalin makes me hyper or anything even remotely so. I have had drug addiction many years ago so it is not an unfamiliar thing to me. The Ritalin merely fills in some where an antidepressant might work better but unfortunately I am unable to take most antidepressants because of my bladder disease.
Thanks,
irene
Posted by bridgey1128 on October 21, 2004, at 17:19:28
In reply to Re: Topomax » rainy, posted by iris2 on October 21, 2004, at 16:11:39
I looked up Straterra..good news...its really an antidepressant! That would probably work better than the Ritalin. I had heard this before but hadn't looked it up until now. No wonder it didn't work on my son. He's not depressed, he's ADHD. :P I have no idea why it works. I have a theory and I share it with my son's Dr. Most kids who are diagnosed as ADHD and are on medication are neither ADHD nor need to BE on medication. If you pay attention to their parents you can clearly see WHY. Children with no boundaries act as if they have no impulses. Why? Because they have never been taught to control them. Parenting now is a horrible joke. Parents are too worried about being their child's friend instead of being their child's parent. I know so many kids that are SOOOO hyper and I have actually caught myself thinking, that kid needs some Ritalin. Then my son's NEW Dr sent me his 10 page research on ADHD. It was quite a wake up call. It made me rethink it and think about the parents of the children I knew whom I had thought about needing Ritalin. It was the PARENT'S fault the child had no inpulse control and couldn't sit still. THey had never been MADE to behave and they had never been MADE to have manners or have boundaries. No WONDER there is such a huge increase in the # of ADHD cases. It's the lack of parenting skills America has now. No one wants to actually discipline their children because they don't want to hurt their "self esteem". What a joke! Studies have shown again and again that these are the kids who grow up to be in jail and care about no one but themselves! They have no manners, have unstable relationships and don't do as well in school. And the worse part is, I know parents who home school their kids simply because they are afraid that the school will tell them their kids need to be on drugs. I am thinking...um..maybe if you had disciplined them a little more when they were younger and made them behave you wouldn't have nearly the problems you have now. Then you could actually SCREEN the ones who actually NEED to be on medication aside from the one's who just have behavior problems from lack of discipline. Our son is one of the actual like 4% who need to be on medication. We discipline, he does not have behavior problems. In fact, when we started telling people he was ADHD they were shocked because he was so well behaved. He just couldn't concentrate and gets EXTREMELY frustrated. That and we have to tell him things 15 times looking him dead in the face while his eyes wander all over the place. We literally would have to hold his head still and look him in the face and have to keep saying.."LOOK AT ME! LOOK AT ME!" because he would be SOOO distracted. He also has obessessive compulsive tendencies, which come with the territory. Other than the compulsiveness, distractability, and impulsiveness he is very well behaved and well mannered. Why? Well.. BECAUSE WE MAKE OUR CHILDREN BEHAVE! It's just that simple. They have no choice but to understand that we are the parents and they are the children. DO they doubt we love them? NO! In fact, My son will be 7 tomorrow and still tells me in FRONT of complete strangers in the middle of Walmart that he loves me. Not a single cuss word has ever come from his mouth. Nor my daughter's who is 3. Do we spank? You bet! Do we have to frequently? Not anymore. I'm not saying all this to brag on my parenting skills because GOD KNOWS I have my share of problems. I have mentioned them! I yell. I have a temper.(redhead thing)I don't spank in anger though..I make sure of that. Was there a purpose to my rant? I dunno..maybe I just wanted to get it off my chest. I think too many parents rely on drugs and not parenting skills or vice versa. There are kids who NEED medication and their parents are too proud to admit their child needs to be on medication! Thanks for divulging me. :)
Posted by Dr. Bob on October 21, 2004, at 23:35:16
In reply to Re: Topomax, posted by bridgey1128 on October 21, 2004, at 17:19:28
> Parenting now is a horrible joke.
> No one wants to actually discipline their children because they don't want to hurt their "self esteem".Please don't exaggerate or overgeneralize or post anything that could lead others to feel accused or put down.
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Thanks,
Bob
Posted by bridgey1128 on October 22, 2004, at 9:03:33
In reply to Re: please be civil » bridgey1128, posted by Dr. Bob on October 21, 2004, at 23:35:16
I apologize. I wasn't trying to hurt feelings!
Posted by rainy on October 22, 2004, at 9:55:28
In reply to Re: please be civil, posted by bridgey1128 on October 22, 2004, at 9:03:33
Stressee, this is message number three--they are getting shorter and shorter. Something about my registration.
1. I've been thinking about you and M. and wish you both well. My appetite began to change around 225 mgs. Soft drinks went flat at 300.
2.What are your impressions of Topamax now that you've read about several different experiences on the drug? If you haven't already, you might want to go all the way back to Ellen Brodie in 1999, top of the thread. Gobs of information. Similar issues, too.
3. I don't want to sound patronizing but: have questions or comments occured to you since the last round? They keep popping up in my head. I've only been on the stuff since 1992.
4. I'd reazlly like to talk with you about the eating disorder but I don't think this board is the place. I can say, though, that Topamax, finally, has helped me with mine.
Let's see if this goes through!
linda
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