Posted by alexandra_k on June 19, 2020, at 17:11:18
In reply to Re: ''what do you meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeean by x?', posted by alexandra_k on June 19, 2020, at 17:06:35
because you get good at it, with practice.
this task of listing the relevant things and prioritising / weighting.
and coming to an informed decision.
you get so used to doing it over and over and over and over and over that it becomes... like thinking. you can do it really really quickly at such a low volument that you are doing it silently, to yourself, in your head.
and then what comes out of our mouth is the verdict.
which (ideally) would be your starting point in a group meeting.
where every individual's starting point would be the outcome of their own individual deliberation.
for higher consensus.
but instead... our meetings are only one rational deliberator and a whole bunch of people who refuse to participate (by inability or unwillingness) who are only insistent on obstructing and confusing the deliberations of others / the group because they like the sound of their own voices. because they can't / won't keep up. follow along.
and every thing must move at the pace of the slowest.
and where does the money go in the meantime.
in some skinnerian way that prevents there being a big f*ck*ng off-topic dialogue that is unneccessary about who is accusing who and about intent and about endless time wasting...
where does the money go in the meantime.
and it's time to stop that. right now.
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