Posted by rjlockhart37 on October 13, 2015, at 21:06:48
In reply to Do we ask for help as often as necessary?, posted by Lamdage22 on October 6, 2015, at 15:46:36
i used to do it all the time, but i learned in my case i was asking for it too much, and i got on people's nerves and they started avoiding me because i would ask for advice even after they gave it.......
but i think it's how you ask, and if maybe that person your asking for help you agree with them and maybe take to heart their advice, and get a biorytham between them so understanding is more easy
i post my frustration and mainly don't expect reponses anymore, that feeling that your the only person on the planet that is going through it, i get that alot, scared and feeling the only person on the planet syndrome
i think maybe someone who your trust, and is easy for them to understand the problem and what to do, i used to ask help all the time, and realized it was getting on people's nerves, and i had to figure out my own problems on my own, but that was my case, you can find people you trust and who will support you back, just make a good solid friendship
not a genius but understand pain
"unheard pain is told through good company
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