how to not look like a creep or a stalker

Posted by rjlockhart37 on May 9, 2014, at 10:58:30

im not a stalker at all....but i've learned how to avoid ever being labled that....
first, people talk to people that they can relate too...and ussally it keeps the social circle stable, when someone goes up to a person and says something random, they don't know them, or asks vary odd questions or conversation starters....that's when it creeps people out
start
1)don't get too intrested in meeting or talking to person you don't know even thought you may want to become friends, there bounderies you have to follow
2)think of a good ice breaker sentence, make who ever your talking to just go with the flow, don't bring soemthing up like, hi xxx, i like dogs but im bipolar and i like to collect alot of things, that's a creep sentence, and usally it will scare people or creep or just to the point where they don't want anything to do with you. --- on my personal accounts people raided things i posted here and labeled me as sick, crazy, all sorts of things even thought this is my private blog, they can read and use it against you for reprentation of who i am, even thought my personal life is diffrent than what i post....this is more my thougths here, not how i acutally live....
3)never expose personal feelings until you are friends or close to a heart to heart conversation, the apporiate thing is being at starbucks having coffee and sharing your thoughts of life, and how you feel, getting close to friends....
4)if they don't take intrest in you even thought you had a ice breaker sentence, don't take intrest in them anymore, because if you do, the example would be starting a conversation, and they engage in some sharing thoughts and opinions, but if it stops and continue to press yourself on them, thats a big no no....they will think of you as a creep getting obsessed with them
5) avoid people that avoid you
6) ignore any presence of them in the room if they do not ingage in conversation
7) have only small talk if you run into them again
thats about it.....so to get the reputation off....ignore the person or people and don't engage anything

thanks for reading and hope advice helps
r
not a scholar but understand distress.....
"unheard pain, is the told through good company"

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