Posted by baseball55 on March 29, 2014, at 20:49:19
In reply to Re: divorce?, posted by Angela2 on March 29, 2014, at 19:24:31
My husband and I spent three hours talking tonight. This is all so sad and painful. I have not been a perfect wife and he had not been a perfect husband. Yet we were perfect parents, or as close to perfect as parents can be. We have made one another unhappy, have stymied one another because of our emotional limitations. He was kind, loving, talked through this. But unwilling to change. So what do I do? I can't figure out a workable budget that would allow me not to live on rice and beans and never travel - even to visit my daughter - or eat out or whatever. I am so sad about this. Sad, sad, sad. Boston is so expensive. I earn a good income, but not good enough to have a comfortable life in Boston. I can't move, because my job is here. Ughhh! I am so confused and conflicted right now.
Thank you all for your support.
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