Posted by rjlockhart37 on May 22, 2013, at 22:30:55
In reply to Avoid Avoidance, posted by 64Bowtie on May 18, 2013, at 4:53:03
64bowie
you just spelled exactly what I was thinking when I posted on facebook.....but I have an avoidance with people who avoid me....it works for me, its convient, there's no risk of getting devesated from rejection, it works perfect for me. Kinda like going up to someone who doesn't like me and talk to them, what will be the effect....they will avoid conversation and say PET awnsers like ... "you can do it" "yea that's good" just statements that have no source meaning...
but the amount of pain I've had from people not showing up to my parties, my birthday, the pain is so intense, I can't contain it....so personally for me, avoid things that cause pain that will trigger rejection trauma. It happens everyday you know....people get rejected a lot, but it shouldn't bother people, but it does....and it bothers me intensly. So to get away from those who hurt me, that's best plan.....
never be hurt again, and heal the wounds with my own spirit
r
not a scholar but understand distress
Med:
Prozac 60mg
Lamictal 200mg
Zyprexa 20mg
Nuvigil 250mg
encourage you to avoid false lights of enlightment and belief systems
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