Posted by HyperFocus on July 22, 2009, at 22:24:46
In reply to Sabotaging myself, posted by Deneb on July 22, 2009, at 21:35:29
Telling yourself you are lazy or feeling you are lazy or sometimes acting like you are lazy are completely separate things from actually being lazy. It sounds as if you do have dreams about what you want to do with life. But maybe your biggest problem is not that you are not smart enough or disciplined enough, but that you don't believe in yourself enough. Self-sabotage is an insidious thing. Also continuously negatively comparing yourself to other people is bad.Have you talked to T about stuff like this? Like what I posted before, you are doing yourself a disservice comparing your life to other people and thinking they are better than you
Maybe you should talk more about what you reall dream about doing and what's stopping you. If you have dreams of going to med school why give it up? It's not going to be easy overcoming your problems - believe me I know - but there is an answer, no matter how big the problem.
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