Posted by DG77 on February 17, 2009, at 15:11:21
In reply to Re: Chick magnet.... » SLS, posted by Kath on February 17, 2009, at 12:51:02
If flirting with women is wrong, I don't want to be right...lol. I know what you mean, though, Scott. Correct me if I'm wrong, but I think you're mostly referring to the "trying too hard" part. After all, you can still be yourself and flirt.
As for starting things off with flirting vs friendship, I'm not sure either is "wrong". Who's to say that a relationship that starts out as a flirtation doesn't continue to have that flirtation at its core for years and years? Even though they predate me by a few decades (yes I had to specify that...lol), the "Thin Man" movies come to mind as an illustration of a couple who don't let the fact that they're married to each other keep them from flirting as if they'd just met. It doesn't happen that way in real life nearly as often as it should, but it does happen. :)
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