Re: Should I be annoyed at this? » Deneb

Posted by SLS on July 6, 2008, at 17:04:18

In reply to Re: Should I be annoyed at this? » SLS, posted by Deneb on July 6, 2008, at 14:58:07

I'm really sorry, Deneb. I wish I hadn't posted anything. I thought I was helping you pinpoint where, perhaps, your reaction was coming from.
I guess I have become too sensitive to the significance of the usage of the word "should". It sometimes reflects an attempt to establish a behavior based upon what you expect others would have of you.
In reality, you *should* have been annoyed. It is what you felt because you were what you were at that moment in time. You could be nothing else. However, you are a different person as of right now. You should be applauded for challenging the thoughts that produced the feelings. You have grown because you decided to vent and make some changes in yourself.

- Scott

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Should I be annoyed at this? Deneb 7/6/08
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Re: Should I be annoyed at this? » Deneb AbbieNormal 7/6/08
Re: Should I be annoyed at this? Happyflower 7/6/08
I would feel the same way. Angela2 7/6/08
Re: Should I be annoyed at this? » Deneb SLS 7/6/08
Re: I would feel the same way. SLS 7/6/08
Who is the idiot now? ME !!! - I apologize SLS 7/6/08
Re: Who is the idiot now? ME !!! - I apologize Phillipa 7/6/08
Re: Should I be annoyed at this? » SLS Deneb 7/6/08
Re: Should I be annoyed at this? » Deneb fayeroe 7/6/08
Re: Should I be annoyed at this? » fayeroe fayeroe 7/6/08
Re: Should I be annoyed at this? Deneb 7/6/08
Re: Should I be annoyed at this? » Deneb fayeroe 7/6/08
Re: Should I be annoyed at this? » Deneb SLS 7/6/08
Re: Should I be annoyed at this? » SLS Deneb 7/6/08
Re: Should I be annoyed at this? gardenergirl 7/6/08
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