Posted by Kath on February 24, 2008, at 16:54:30
In reply to Re: I think I'm asexual again, posted by Deneb on February 24, 2008, at 2:01:29
Hey Deneb,
I don't see why you have to put a label on yourself. Does it really matter?
Also, I though you were having second thoughts as to being asexual.
I strongly suspect that once you find someone who shares your interests & values, & if you build a friendship & it leads to a 'romantic' relationship....I suspect that you might find you have sexual feelings. Or even if you have a romantic relationship (without the friendship first, although I prefer the friendship in place first) & that relationship feels emotionally safe & comfortable....I suspect you'll find you have sexual feelings.
Some people are more sexual than others. For some people sex is more important & for others less, but I bet the latter doesn't necessarily mean they're asexual.
I don't think all women feel 'turned on' by a guy even if they find someone attractive or cute.
I think we can tend to take our 'cues' from what society/the media/movies/ advertisements - present us with. I think that we can think that EVERYONE or even MOST people are like that. And it's not necessarily true!!!
Everyone is different Deneb. We each just are as we are.
I send hugs, Kath
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