Posted by Kath on January 11, 2008, at 14:28:23
In reply to Men who date survivors **trigger**, posted by AbbieNormal on January 11, 2008, at 6:02:52
How would he know they were? I would think that he dates someone & then later learns that they are survivors.
Maybe there's something about him that attracts someone who's been through that. Maybe he feels 'safe'. Or if he isn't nice, maybe they sense that & think they don't deserve to be with someone good.
just thoughts, kath
PS - I find it hard to imagine that he'd have that personal of information from someone when they weren't even dating yet! It's not the type of thing that survivors I know would tell just anyone.
> Anyone have a theory on why a man would continually date CSA survivors? Why would this be attrative to a man? Any ideas?
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> Thank you.
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> Abbie
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