Posted by DannaB on February 9, 2007, at 22:59:12
In reply to Re: Hard time making friends » DannaB, posted by Phillipa on February 9, 2007, at 12:53:31
Thanks for your kind replies. I'm located in the northeast US, Phillipa.
I literally spend MOST of every single day alone...except when I have class or work, and then I spend it "alone in a group."
I have literally made TWO friends at my school. Both of them have boyfriends and consequently are often busy on weekends, Friday & Saturday nights, etc.
I am starting to worry. It can't possibly be good to spend so much time alone. I still have my boyfriend, but our relationship is just hanging by a thread and because of his schedule I don't see much of him anyway.
Help!! The big events in my week are classes and my therapist appointment. There are some weekends when I literally do NOTHING except my reading for school and watching tv. I have been so depressed and once I get into a pattern (and lose touch with the few friends I do have) it is impossible to start making plans. I have almost no hobbies and sadly the close "phone friends" (from home) I've had are more distant now. Maybe they sense the depression and that's driving them away?
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