Posted by alesta on December 4, 2006, at 14:57:16
In reply to Re: i am like *so* mad at my ex (crack addict one) » alesta, posted by zenhussy on November 28, 2006, at 19:14:39
> an ex in our past did that to us. even went so far as to empty out the fridge contents into the drawers and other furniture items. imagine how yummy yogurt was weeks later tossed over everything in the storage locker........ew!
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> sorry crack boy behaved so poorly toward you and your items.
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> it hurts to have precious things destroyed by others. allow yourself to feel hurt, express that hurt, and move forward from that hurt.
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> you are NOT the hurt. you will feel it and then release it as you said the energy is more important than the vengence.
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> although the vengeful thoughts can be satisfying heh heh heh
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> thinking to help release the feelings is good....acting on vengeful feelings....probably not so good.....probably what compelled his actions? bah to him and his unhappy ways.
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> love you aimster
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> --zhhi zenny! would've replied sooner if i could but schedule didn't permit..and i'm so bloody tired lately from too much to do. thanks..i'm so sorry you went through something similar...euh!!
thanks for the advice..believe me, i don't intend to go anywhere near 'crack boy' .:) yes, great advice! i concur, zen. i have learned that anger or other negative emotions are not bad, and actually, you need to allow yourself to feel those emotions, for your own mental health. the emotions themselves aren't bad...it's what you potentially could do with them...heheheh...hehhehhhhh....;)
love you, too, zen. you're a sweetheart!
love,
amy
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