Posted by JenStar on January 21, 2006, at 16:09:07
In reply to agreeing w/ someone when they dis someone else?, posted by JenStar on January 20, 2006, at 17:11:01
thanks to everyone for responding! I think I will be careful to criticize the action, not the person. That way I can still leave myself room to accept the person in the future, even if I am not happy with their actions.
Although, like Dinah pointed out, SOME transgressions (like spousal abuse) are completely unforgivable. In a case like that, I would be completely comfortable criticizing the person as well as the actions.
Dinah, I hope that friend will be OK.
thanks to everyone for your thoughts!
JenStar
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