Posted by Susan47 on December 24, 2005, at 22:32:04
In reply to I don't know how not to feel bad about myself, posted by Angela2 on December 24, 2005, at 20:00:32
I used to get these feelings from my family, and my ex's family as well. Then I understood, just recently as a matter of fact, that there were reasons these was happening and the reasons made a lot of sense. Angela, you're smarter than you know, we all are, and your discomfort is telling you there are dynamics at work that aren't healthy for you. So if you feel like you can't take it, you definitely don't have to, and NO GUILT because you're right, it's all b.s., one day a year makes no difference, it all comes down to how you are all the time. Be around people who are good to you, who appreciate you and who bring the best out in you and the rest will take care of itself, truly ...
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