Posted by TexasChic on October 15, 2005, at 7:41:38
In reply to Re: Don't get involved!, posted by wildcard on October 15, 2005, at 3:18:31
For some reason, here lately, married men seem to be the only ones that hit on me. It doesn't help my view of marriage (or men) very much.
But this is how I think of it: If a guy likes me, then I want him to pay attention to ME, not go home and sleep with someone else. I mean, how insulting is that? "Yeah, he must really like me, after our date he goes home and has sex with another women". Woohoo, what a winner.
Also, I believe in Karma. If you're doing something that is negative or harmful to someone else, get ready for it to come back at ya! Even if its your own subconscious at work (which is what I believe karma really is). Negativity breeds negativity.
When I get tempted I always think, okay, if I resist this, I will be rewarded by something good in the future. Like an awesome guy a person might not notice if involved with a married man. I know its all in my mind, but if you look for the good karma you deserve, you will find it. I've had some really weird examples of this happening (which has sometimes made me second guess the subconscious theory). I think its just a matter of opening your mind. Okay, I'm getting on one of the two subjects I will ramble on about forever. I've always loved philosophy.
The other subject? My hair. Seriously, I could talk for hours about it! I think I have a hair fetish or something!
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