Posted by Mal on July 25, 2005, at 12:05:52
In reply to advice about melancholy memories?, posted by Jen Star on July 22, 2005, at 21:53:17
I get this, too JenStar. Usually about the first guy I ever loved, in HS, ~20 years ago. I occasionally run into his Mom (once a year or less).
THere is also a guy I didn't LOVE, but had a rocky ~6 month "relationship" with, that I wonder about. He was from the UK, and as far as I know, he is there and I am here. NO WAY would I call him up, but I do wonder wonder about how he ended up, if he ever thinks of me.
I have googled MANY people I used to know. Most of them aren't to be found. Even if they are listed I haven't made any contact. I just sometimes wonder where they are, how they are doing, if I ever meant anything to them...
I get wistful sometimes, but I know I made the right decisions. I know I am much better off in THIS life than I would have been in either of the WHAT IF lives.
YOu are not lame. Hope you have a good day...
MAL
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