Posted by JenStar on June 12, 2005, at 10:24:04
In reply to I don't like being a girl, posted by Deneb on June 11, 2005, at 18:10:16
hi Deneb,
it can be tiring at times, you're right! It does suck that we have to do our hair, wear make-up, dress up, "enjoy" tampons on a regular basis, shave our legs, wear bras (carefully chosen not to show thru our shirts with lacy outlines or something), etc. But still, I'd rather do it all than have to shave, worry about going bald, have an Adam's apple, or just be a guy. I LIKE being a girl, difficulty and all! I love pink, and shoes, and girly stuff, and pretty clothes, and makeup (even though I hate that I'm sometimes "expected" to wear it). I like pedicures, and getting my hair done, and perfume, and when I lose 5 lbs and suddenly my favorite pants fit again. I love flirting, even though I'm not what you'd call a supermodel by any means, or even a "sort of super" model. I like purses. I like shoes with pointy toes. (Did I already mention shoes???) I like it -- even though it's on the decline -- when a guy holds a door for me. (Although usually I'M the one holding doors for people, like elderly people or women with baby buggies, since most guys seem to ignore them and just slam, slam, slam.)I know there's the glass ceiling, the wage difference, and discrimination. But still, I'd rather be a girl! :)
But I'm with you on the bra-less thing. It sure would be cool if we never needed them! And I agree - if you don't want make-up, don't wear it. I think most people look prettier without it. Just be prepared for a few whistles and cat-calls from guys who 'appreciate" the fact that you are currently bra-less. :)
If you have bad periods, many docs now DO recommend the pill and you can have your period just 4 times a year, I think. I don't do it but I ahve a friend who does - she LOVES not having her period. I'm a bit afraid of taking that kind of medication - it seems "unnatural" even though it also seems easy and cool. I don't know. I guess I'll wait for more info from the FDA and make sure it's safe after years of use...
JenStar
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