Posted by Susan47 on April 28, 2005, at 14:57:36
In reply to Re: Nightmare » Susan47, posted by alesta on April 28, 2005, at 12:08:58
You two gave me a lot to think about. Really, it was a wonderful dream and thinking about it now makes me grateful I have Babble to come to, somewhere I can post a dream. It's there now, I can look at it but I'm not alone with it. Now I can finally think about it, because putting it here and having you guys help me analyze it has given me the opportunity to hold the dream in my hand and observe it.
I'm not done observing but I have a strong feeling about the man on his knees. He's my ex-T, my feeling is that I brought him to his knees therapy-wise, and the reason I asked him "Don't your knees hurt?" is because I knew he couldn't bear carrying me, it's not that he's weak because if he were he wouldn't have had me on his back in the first place, but somehow it's my way of saying it's okay, you don't have to carry me but you need to tell me you're not going to carry me anymore. Because if you do, I'll take the ride.My boundaries really suck, is what I learned this morning. With my ex-, at the doctor's office. :]
But I'm going to examine this dream a bit more, I'm wanting to do that at some point, thanks girls, you were unselfish and really wonderful to help me. :-)
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