Posted by sunny10 on April 25, 2005, at 11:43:59
In reply to Yet another issue................., posted by woolav on April 25, 2005, at 10:23:58
does he ever ogle women in front of you?
Is he a flirt with your friends-in-common, or when you go out to a restaurant, does he flirt with the waitresses?
I'm asking these questions because in order to help you figure out whether you have done something "unforgiveable", it is important to know the personality of the person who needs to be able to forgive you....
Does that make sense? For some, even a full-fledged three year long sexual affair is "forgiveable". For others, flirting is unforgiveable... It all depends on the parties involved.
If you can let us know what he's like, maybe we'll be better able to respond with stuff that actually helps you determine this stuff...
I personally feel you are forgiveable... although I also know that I would be hurt if my SO did this to me. I would probably have a hard time trusting him for a while, but with honest communication about WHY he would feel the need to do such a thing, I would be willing to work it out for the sake of our relationship.
-sunny10
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