Posted by Angel Girl on February 2, 2005, at 3:23:58
In reply to First impression, posted by Angielala on February 1, 2005, at 19:31:14
I don't know who that poster was because in all honesty I didn't read your thread. I'm sorry that I didn't. I don't even really have an answer to why I didn't but I don't read all threads here either. What that poster wrote to you was what she would do. Maybe she wrote it in such a way that lead you to feel guilty. Did you discuss this with her? I didn't witness any of this so I have no idea to what happened really. But please don't judge all posters by that one, just as I would hope that you wouldn't do that here. There are some very wonderful people over there that make you feel extremely welcome. I'm only starting to get to know some of the posters. I have yet to spend a lot of time there and have slightly less than 100 posts so far. I feel for your situation and I'm sorry that you were upset by her reply and I can certainly understand why you would be. I would just advise you to gather all the info that you can and make the decision that makes you feel comfortable for both you and your unborn baby. Only you will know what that is. Just make an informed decision. I've sent my prayers to the man upstairs for you to have a normal, healthy pregnancy and a normal, healthy baby. I hope you will find peace in whatever you decide to do.
AG
> So I checked Psych Central out today... thought maybe I should post the Lamictal Pregnancy thing there, just in case. I got this poster telling me that if I was her that she wouldn't stay on the drug because if anything happens to the baby, I would have a lifetime of guilt. First impression of the place, the posters there do not have the same class as the posters here. I might be biased, but no one here would say that to the post that I posted (same post as here). Maybe it's just one bad poster... but God! Talk about trying to make someone feel pressured to follow their advice!
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> > dr-bob.org and psychcentral.com
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> > Does one have to be bad and the other good?
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> > Do we have to choose where we get our education and support? Do we have to choose which posters we are going to befriend? It feels to me like many believe it has to be a choice. One or the other.
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> > I post here. I post there. I like and dislike things about PsychoBabble. I like and dislike things about PsychCentral.
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> > One thing remains constant, though. I like and feel loyal to *posters* at both places. I just can't deny myself the opportunity to make new friends and I definitely can't deny myself the opportunity to cultivate the friendships I already have.
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> > Do you think Dr. Hsiung and Dr. Grohol mind if we post at both places? They shouldn't.
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> > Just thinking outloud and feeling sad that I think a wall is going up (or growing higher?) between the two places :(.
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> > Laurie
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