Posted by becksA on July 27, 2004, at 5:10:30
I seem to have a problem with keeping a "medium" distance (emotionally) with new girlfriends...I am a very emotional and sensitive person, and when I begin to date, often I will act so affectionate and caring , that they will want to see me immediately the next day, the next day, and so on.
However, I just moved to the area, I'm still in school, interning, my life is just too unbalanced to handle that. NOt to mention I'm young, I would like to keep my options open without hurting any feelings!
Perfect example, tonight, I had a first date. Things went so well that it finally ended after kissing her goodnight in her car after sitting outside my house until 4:00 AM, and her telling me she would call me tomorow (I told her to call too! ack!) and we plan on watching a movie at her place tomorow.
For me it's always been either nobody, or a girlfriend that clings to me immediately and gets very emotionally attached right from the get-go. I don't understand how all these guys can make it seem so easy to casually (not in a bad way) date a couple of girls ....until one becomes serious after a while,,,instead of after the FIRST DATE like me!
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