Posted by Fallen4MyT on April 30, 2004, at 23:03:06
In reply to Re: HELLO!!!, posted by Ivan Michael on April 30, 2004, at 11:04:32
Yo Ivan,,,,well I KNOW or THINK I know what you mean on feeling what went on and all....I thik that is empathy and its a good quality to have but needs to be channeled some and will be in time as not to hurt you so. I too do it...when someone tells me something really sad or say they are a victims..sometimes it bugs me so much I cannot sleep at night..its like its me but its not...I am better at not letting it affect me so but not perfect. In highschool its hard I do remember wayyy back :) cause so many demands on you and the peer issues..ughh....Nowdays I bet its harder too...I am wondering if you see a therapist..you may have said but I read a lot tonight and my mind is mushier than normal..if you have a T you could ask what your diagnosis is...if you want to know. The right med or a good therapist could help for good .. I am a animal nut..I think pets are less judgemental than people and never...hurt on purpose..but people the RIGHT ones can be GREAT like your girl and her mom . What do you do for fun?
> hey there. thanks for explaining that. i knew what it was at one time but i was having a verie slow day and i forget a lot on days like that. i personallie don't know whats wrong with me. i, in a way, blame myself because my whole life i pushed away from people. i take things reallie hard and forgive but never forget. i was on paxil but hated it and just got off. just letting you know, i'm not going to school for anie sort of degree. i'm onlie 16 and a sophmore in highschool. i have two dogs and some fish. my girlfriend and her mom ARE great. saddlie, they are both depressed too. the mom had a not verie nice step mom and has been through drinking and divorce. my girlfriend had to deal with divorce (her parents'), friends who are also depressed and cutters and so on, and she was repeatedlie raped at the age of 4 by her brother. I don't realie like to talk about that much. i don't know why or how but when i hear or talk about things, it's like i'm there and i can see hear and feel all of it. i hate the feeling and can't stand going over that. well i gotta go but will post later. bye.
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