Posted by Fallen4myT on April 1, 2004, at 17:30:09
In reply to Re: Sandy » jlynne, posted by SandyWeb on April 1, 2004, at 16:36:37
Sandy i don't know if youre upset with me or what but I wanted to say...I care and Jlynne cares a LOT for you its soooo obvious..Please you fought to keep that creep of an EX away from your kids this IF you do it....would be as bad if not worse for your kids.....You loved those kids enough to spare them the aweful way the hubby treated you and think about the mental scars you would leave on them....it would be worse...NOW A PLUS is you did go...and were tense but you tried and made calls and went almost to ER..a few steps at a time and you'll be inside..I wish i lived by you cause I WOULD go take you as your friend to er and help you go on and sit with you till you were admitted....I know what abuse is...my husband IS abusive and you know, the stuff that hurts MORE is the mental crap they dump on you...a slap or punch fades as do the bruises but the scar from a mental/emotional wound doesnt heal when it cuts so deep. YOUR KIDS deserve a mom who stays alive and not to bear the guilt ..so dont do it...Its simply OFF your to do list...call more numbers, go to ER hourly if till you CAN go in...and or ask your oldest to go with you....anything than hurt them worse than he could have.......
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