Posted by Bubbaleh on March 23, 2004, at 13:33:52
In reply to Re: commitment problems, dinah and pegasus., posted by Fallen Angel on March 22, 2004, at 10:57:46
I wouldn't tell him until you know him better. You might scare him off, and then you'll never know if you can overcome your commitment trouble. Sometimes, if you wait about five dates before dropping bad news like commitmentphobia on your date, it gives him or her enough time to get to know you and not be scared off. The trouble with this plan is, if you have commitmentphobia, you might not be able to stick around for five dates!
By the way, I am just repeating what I read about revealing mental issues in general to possible partners.
Good luck!
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