Posted by Dinah on March 23, 2004, at 12:25:32
In reply to I have been so bad, posted by rainee on March 23, 2004, at 8:27:11
I've been there, and my husband was there with me. I think it helped that I came up with a plan for a) getting myself out of the mess and b) how not to get into it again. Perhaps if you offer him something in that direction, he'll feel better about it. My plan was that I got a second mortgage on the house at low rates and tore up all but one credit card, and reduced the credit limit on that one to almost nothing.
But I guess it also helps that we don't have community property or community debts.
poster:Dinah
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