Re: Family Anger, Dysfunction, Can You Stop It? L

Posted by TexasChic on November 19, 2003, at 18:57:40

In reply to Re: Family Anger, Dysfunction, Can You Stop It? LONG » femlite, posted by Susan J on November 18, 2003, at 12:42:07

It sounds alot like the whole co-dependency theory. I've found it's extremely difficult to stop "helping" the person you are actually enabling. But once you finally let go and see their life can go on with out your "help" (no matter how much they try to manipulate you into thinking otherwise), its such a relief!! You realize you can lead your life without the burden of someone elses welfare on your shoulders. I hope you can succeed in removing yourself from your families problems, because they are theirs, not yours.

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Family Anger, Dysfunction, Can You Stop It? LONG Susan J 11/18/03
Re: Family Anger, Dysfunction, Can You Stop It? LONG » Susan J fallsfall 11/18/03
Re: Family Anger, Dysfunction, Can You Stop It? LONG femlite 11/18/03
Re: Family Anger, Dysfunction, Can You Stop It? LONG Susan J 11/18/03
Re: Family Anger, Dysfunction, Can You Stop It? LONG » femlite Susan J 11/18/03
Re: Family Anger, Dysfunction, Can You Stop It? L TexasChic 11/19/03
Re: Family Anger, Dysfunction, Can You Stop It? LONG » Susan J Larry Hoover 11/21/03
Thank you, all Susan J 11/21/03

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