Posted by Penny on August 14, 2003, at 14:42:39
In reply to Re: Ladies, Don't do it » Ted, posted by Dinah on August 14, 2003, at 12:42:29
It's not just significant others, be they male or female, but can also be friends too. My roommate still doesn't understand that you don't always have to say exactly what's on your mind, exactly when you think it, moreso if it's unpleasant.
Not that I want her to be dishonest with me exactly, but a little tact never hurt anyone.
Me, I just go sound off to my therapist and feel much better afterwards, especially when it's something that I know might hurt someone else.
Of course, I don't feel like I'm able to do that as much right now. Maybe it's my emotional intelligence that's suffering...
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