Posted by paxvox on July 29, 2003, at 18:25:45
In reply to Church for social opportunity., posted by Tabitha on July 26, 2003, at 1:35:54
Well................ As a "church type" for the past 12 years, I can tell you the good and bad about the "socialization" aspect. Depending upon the denomination, size and demograhics of a particular church, I can almost ASSURE you that the ARE trying to recruit you because that is their MISSION. One should not take that as a negative thing. Although there ARE some churches/denominations that have a bottom line of $$$$$, the vast majority are concerned about the salvation of souls than "loosing the cash from your wallet". As for your "having a pretty low tolerance for religious beliefs", well, not to be judgmental, but THAT'S what churches do. They may have open meetings for the public, and many let organizations unaffiliated with any religion use their facilities, but they are in the "business" of promoting their beliefs in hope others will like what they see and join. I'm not sure how to advise you on this subject, but going to a church and not wanting to be preached to is like going to a bar and not wanting to be offered a drink. I certainly don't mean this as a put down of you or your beliefs, but unless you ARE open to having a church tell you about its beliefs, their programs are probably not what you are looking for. However, unless you know for sure that you would never consider joining a church after learning about what they believe, what harm would it cause you to give it a go? It's not like they are going to drag you away and brain-wash you (well, maybe SOME churches). Anyway, I hope that you DO find a place where you feel welcomed without being uncomfortable about what might be asked of you. Good luck!
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