Posted by kara lynne on July 14, 2003, at 12:21:07
In reply to Kara... Kara...Kara..., posted by giget on July 14, 2003, at 8:05:51
Hi giget,
I will email you from work today. I'm all messed up again. I'm probably the one needing the hug more than he is right now. I can't stand being in this apartment one more day. Never has two weeks felt so long.I'm sorry you're in hell. How horrible that you have to work with him. What is it like when you see each other? Do you talk? How long since you've talked on the phone?
I will never get over how my ex isn't trying to get me back. When I talked to him over the weeked he said *I* haven't let him say anything, and that's why there hasn't been any contact. Funny, there still isn't. I've said what I have to say and he never responded. He responds to my hurt with arrogant, philosophical meanderings like---
After that last mass email he sent me I wrote back that he should consider a course in sensitivity training. He honestly didn't know why. I spelled it out and wrote back,: "Consider that we were going to have a life together once. Then consider that you are asking me for references to come Feng Shui the house we might have lived in together, where you will now be holding "special invitation" events for the business you married instead."
To which he replied: "I do want that house Feng Shui'ed. I would have wanted it Feng Shui'ed if you had lived there. I want it Feng Shui'ed now that you're not going to live there. NA has reintroduced me to the virtues of social interaction. I think it will be interesting to have salons there every month or so. The house is made for those kind of things. I would have loved it if you wanted to live there and put up with my NA-inspired wish to have dinner parties. Maybe you'll want to come to them. It's not all about selling, it's about staying healthy and engaging the mind with interesting guests. I hope you'll want to participate in some way or another."
Romantic, huh? There's a real play for me. Perhaps I could tell you how I'd like to participate...
I'l talk to you later giget. Take care, that lack of sleep thing with a full moon could make someone a little...er....sensitive.
poster:kara lynne
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