Posted by paxvox on March 11, 2003, at 18:27:56
In reply to which is it?, posted by sienna on March 11, 2003, at 15:09:43
Ying Yang I think. On the one hand, you have some poor self-perceived deficiencies. While on the other hand, you realize that you also have some outstanding qualities that are validated by others (therefore,not just YOUR opinion). So my question would be: do you have objective validation of you being a worthless dirtball? Hmmmmmmm? Me thinks probably not. Either way. We have our good parts and our bad parts (no matter WHO we are, or how we rate ourselves). There IS a balance. Work on improving how you feel about YOU by seeking some other opinions for validation. May be that you are being too hard on yourself. Happens to all of us. Tell me where it hurts. What makes you feel you are such a miserable person?
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