Posted by Miller on January 4, 2003, at 11:10:39
In reply to Re: Miller..., posted by Dinah on January 4, 2003, at 11:03:05
Don't be sorry about being honest. You know from all of my posts how rational I can be. :)
Well, if he has actually forgotten, is there anybody else that you can make the arrangements with? If he does ever terminate (doesn't seem likely in the near future) maybe there can be another "safety" in place.
As for life being "barely tolerable" as it is, I can totally relate. But, deep down, there has to be a REASON that you would want to be safe if the bottom falls out of your comfort zone. Perhaps you want to be dependant on someone? So, if he leaves, being in a hospital will give you an opportunity to find someone else to depend on? Is he the only person you can be dependant on?
I'm sorry you are hurting. I wish I could help more.
-Miller
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