Posted by Dinah on December 23, 2002, at 22:43:06
In reply to Here we go again..., posted by mikhail99 on December 23, 2002, at 20:51:18
Sorry, Mikhail. Not silly at all. Sometimes our loved ones can hurt us so deeply, if only because we think they should know us better. I guess that's why I tend to detach a bit. Do you think it would help to tell him how much that hurt after everything has cooled down? No point when tempers are high, I know.
I hate it when my therapist is unavailable. Somehow just the knowledge that I can't reach him seems to make everything seem worse. I think he's figured that out, and just today told me I could call him while he's away on Christmas vacation. And of course, I won't, because things won't seem so bad if I know I can. I don't know if I explained that well.
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