Posted by Ted on December 5, 2002, at 11:19:22
In reply to Re: I feel.....stop fretting, posted by tina on December 5, 2002, at 8:48:56
Tina,
> It's going to be ok. You'll never notice me gone.
Hell -- I won't. I'll notice and so will everyone else. You all are the best and most understanding friends I ever had. I will certainly miss you. Guaranteed.
>Thanks for the refresh of my post Dinah
See -- You really do want to hold on. This is just a rough spot. Keep talking with us. We are all here to help. We all have these rough spots and we can always count on the others for help through them. You are no exception.
>See, the more I visit my friend's grave
Well maybe you just need a break from the visits. You need to take time for TINA. Holidays are particularly difficult, I know.
>...I need to "fight and hold on" but why?Because **I** need you and I will be the others do also.
>It's the perfect plan and I mean p-e-r-f-e-c-t.
We all have plans. I have several dozen PERFECT plans. But I try not to think about them. Please don't be selfish -- please stop thinking only about yourself and your plans. Please think about the rest of us.
>It isn't sad, it's a happy time.
What do you mean? It's frightening, horrifying, devastating.
PLEASE STOP IT!
ted
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