Posted by shar on October 20, 2002, at 3:44:00
In reply to Gonads needed!, posted by lawrence s. on October 20, 2002, at 0:07:19
First and foremost, you need to take care of yourself so you can take action to help your kids and possibly leave your marriage. It sounds like therapy is in order for the suicidal ideation, meds may also be useful.
While you are still living in the situation, Al Anon could be a help because it is for people who are living with alcoholics. That group could help you with the "should this make me upset?" kind of questions.
Good luck,
Shar> Today I watched my wife drive off drunk with a guyfriend. I counted 6 beers were missing from the fridge.
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> Should this make me upset?
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> I know if I divorce her that she will get the kids simply because the judges only do what is politically correct, and that is to help out poor repressed mothers by giving them whatever they request. She then will be D.U.I.ing my kids all over the roads even more than she does now. How do I get out of this mess?
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> I'm getting serios suicidal ideation worse than I have ever had.
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